Curious about wives

Can't wait for the RickyBoyDugan to chime in on this one.

Honesty is important in a relationship, and so you have to tell your wife or SO all about your strip club activities.

I have a wife. Does she know I go? Yes. She has been with me in the past. Does she know how often? No.

^ ditto what clubber said.

And she also knows that I've taken some of my female coworkers with me on occasion. Honesty is the best policy (to a point).

I've been married for 44 years and my wife has a chronic medical condition (Alzheimers) and doesn't have a need to know what I'm doing when I go out. I make sure she has the best medical care and I exercise my prostate. Use it or lose it.

When I was married my wife knew that I went however I did not go very often. I had no need to. There was plenty of entertainment at home. Now that I'm not married I go more frequently.

Well what if you had an affair with the Bonita once a week?

Just a widower here, lost my wife last year. But I've been going to clubs for several years and she was definitely in the know about it all and occasionally went with me.

And to Bullkwinkle's point... out of guys who spend time posting on a strip club site, I think there will be more with knowledgeable, accepting partners than among those who lurk and never post. Because if they weren't accepting, we'd be hiding more. ;)

Roger Thornhill: What's wrong with men like me?
Eve Kendall: They don't believe in marriage.
Roger Thornhill: I've been married twice.
Eve Kendall: See what I mean?

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Alucard hasn't posted....but he's right about this topic.

I'm married. She knows I club. She knows I have sex with strippers.

I suspect that's moderately unusual, even among this crowd. But I've seen some indications that it's not unheard of in society at large.

i dont have a wife but a want one who lets me fuck other girls. or at least get bjs

I have a long time GF that will legally become my wife next month. She doesn't know about my little hobby and I wouldn't think of burdening her with such a trivial thing. In other words I'm REALLY good at hiding it.....so far.

lopaw, congratulations! Are we invited to the wedding?

Most people don't think it's infidelity if a married person masturbates. Commercial sex is emotionally no different than masturbation, so I don't understand why it counts as infidelity. There is less chance of a person's affections being alienated by a commercial sexual relationship than a platonic job relationship.

Gawker I hope your wife's suffering is as minimal as possible.

lol jackslash.....I could just imagine her side of the church filled with friends, relatives & coworkers, while my side filled with strippers, escorts and you characters.

Fastest.Divorce.Ever.

Well what do you know? The RickyBoyDugan has yet to chime in on this matter. Because he is ashamed of the risks of STDs and cervical cancer he puts his wife at, no doubt. And also because he is a faggot as well!

@BW the risk of AIDS from oral sex is much lower than vag/anal. For better or for worse, meeting the level of the competition requires most P4P girls to do BBBJ.

Being a P4P custy and being a sex worker are two different things. Sex work is not like fapping. While fapping may be some people's vocation in life, it is not generally a paying one.

@Bullwinkle: Absolutely not! Who could pass up that kind of fun?

Don't discuss my hobbying with wife.

That's the spirit, Bull! Look at the wonders it has done for the RickyBoy and for Payer11.

lopaw,

How would that work if you two were to move to a state that doesn't recognize same sex marriage?

Clubber,

I don't see us ever leaving Cali, and if we do it would be to move to Canada since we both love Vancouver so much (note to self - begin investigating Vancouver SC scene). I could see us ultimately retiring up there someday. We'll definitely keep better in the colder climate!

lopaw,

You could retire to Florida like many do. Sometimes it get real cold down here. It was 50 this last winter, at least a day or two. :)