my nice new stripper friend wants me to pay for her room in a hotel as she broke

bluemonday
Ok lads, am a fairly experienced clubber, tho intermittent as i live in UK but club over in Niagara/Toronto... been over already 3 times this year and enjoying this hobby quite safely for about six years or so... not too much older than some of my stripper girls that i go with and i'm still decent shape etc, so usually like to take on a 'girlfriend' who becomes a regular for a year or two if they dont disappear and more importantly at least seem genuine and to have real fun with me...

Anyway, met the nicest ever and defo most beautie/cutie stripper ever on my last trip and thought might make this one a 'special girl' for now, as no-one around for me at the moment, she was hot enough and had the personality too, to keep me interested big style...

All is fine, i had some great nights ITC with her (low spend for me - can make 200 last hours when playing nice like this) and she would sit with me ages when could, we had dinner or drinks together OTC most nights, no strings, no pay etc, i got her e-mail, facebook (msg every 2-3 days for a month or so since i got back home), contact phone number (and also later in addition her real home one - i checked, most girls have 2nd or even 3rd phone of course), seemed very clean in the club (for canada, which can be pretty wild), talk of maybe hook up properly together and holidays etc, she put some serious time and effort in here, for not too much dollars so all is defo very good...

BUT THEN

got msg on FB that she stuck and in trouble in Calgary
'can you save my life and pay for my room as i cant afford hotel - meant to work but now not able to and thrown out of hotel now for no reason, please help etc'

how many would help and pay ?? i assume no-one ???? and am not that crazy either so gracefully declined that request...

i have since found out her and another stripper are working as independent prostitutes/escorts via backpage not only in Calgary but now currently in Edmonton... so that's how the room in my name and credit was to be used...

no matter how nice or how real these girls ever come across, 99.9% (really, i do know a couple of good ones still) at the end of the day, are just pure prostitutes and users.

clearly i was just being sucked in, so money could be extracted easy, but can't believe surely anyone would pay, so why try pull such an obvious scam, she now lost a good customer for future and the many dollars i would have spent over the next couple of years. so not only prostitutes and users, but fucking idiots too...

only a very few on here wont know exact how this tale was gonna end as they start reading, but to others, dont get excited coz you got a FB or 'real' friend or a girl who seem to genuine like you, keep your guard up at all times... like i say, i have been lucky enough to find among say 1000 about 2 or 3 who are genuine i can and am still friends with them even tho they now retired even, but especially now, things are worse and these younger ones coming into the industry are never to be trusted.

i still needed to write this on here to get my head round it, as i'm still after a lot of other experience taken aback by this girl on this one. would welcome reply and whatever from you lot to back me up and make sure i keep my sensible head on here... i realise, this is a girl i would still be crazy about otherwise...

i may still go with her, shes still a hottie i like and now obv available for a nice price perhaps, but i had wanted to play it out properly as its so much more fun. at least i am forewarned and not going down in any scam. (would anyone still do this ?)

.......

p.s. if you ever get a number of a genuine 'nice/clean' stripper and want to find out more, put her number on google and see if it comes up on either escortphonesearch.com or bodyrublist.com

(there were about 50 adds for my girl !)





13 comments

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Alucard
11 years ago
Say NO. Before you get in TOO deep.
mjx01
11 years ago
payment is for service rendered only.

cash only to prevent paper trail. In this case you def do not want to be mistaken as a PIMP.
gawker
11 years ago
I know one stripper who is clean, no extras, no drugs, etc. I talk to her about my ATF who continues to bleed me. She says that my ATF "is the leech that I refuse to pick off". What a wonderful phrase!
SlickSpic
11 years ago
I appreciate you sharing this tale of stripper turned escort ineptitude. It sucks when this shit happens but this shit happens. Mjx01 has it down. Advice to follow.
Papi_Chulo
11 years ago
Getting financially attached to a stripper is like nation building in the Middle East - it never turns out well.
SlickSpic
11 years ago
Hahahahaha. Ahhhh.
mjx01
11 years ago
@PC: LOL!

@gawker: the grass may be green in a different pasture
ilbbaicnl
11 years ago
More generally, if you're a person who has savings and good credit, it's not very practical to be friends with someone who has little or no financial stability. Generally, the more financial stable a stripper is, the more wary she is about socializing with customers OTC.
Club_Goer_Seattle
11 years ago
I too, got taken by surprise by my ATF. However, fortunately, there was no request for money when the "end" came. Try to get over it and move on. Just be prepared now, that any stripper you might encounter could have reliability, and trustworthiness problems. Be on your guard!
sharkhunter
11 years ago
I discovered a long time ago what is very unusual is a dancer who doesn't ask for money from out of the blue at some point in time. Those are the ones who either got their act together or have enough respect for you they don't try to pull that crap.
Tiredtraveler
11 years ago
Walk away and do not look back. Unfriend facebook or what ever you do to cut off communications. If she has you info then you may have a problem.
Can you say burn phone, repeat burn phone. Once she is into your life she will milk it for all it is worth. I have never given a girl my regular phone number and I am not on facecrap, twinker or any of those public forums that anyone can read. (do not bother telling me about facebook security, I do not care as I have no use for the service)
bluemonday
11 years ago
am gonna go with tired traveller option and move right on, but am back over canada soon, so if she turn up back ITC then will be interesting ?

will report how it plays out if that the case... if i do play the game at least i know the hand i'm playing here...

cheers lads, this is what the site about, bit craic with those who know, appreciated
SlickSpic
11 years ago
Keep on clubbing, BlueMonday.
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