OT: SW Thread - Blaming others for your lack of money-making.
Papi_Chulo
Miami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
I especially LOLed at her line – “… You are here to make your money and leave, not compete with other girls or talk down on them out of some deep-rooted insecurity ("at least I'm not a ho." Bitch, you are a stripper, you are as close to a ho as a priest is to a monk) …â€
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Why do so many girls do this?
"I'm not making any money because there are ho's here, a guy will always pick a nasty ho over a pretty, clean dancer." (I literally heard another girl say this.)
"No one is spending money." (Don't even want to count how many times I've heard this. Did you work the whole room? No? Then you can't say this.)
What anyone else does really has no effect on how you make your money. I've left the club a top earner on dead nights when girls feel the need to blame other girls for being ho's and "taking their money" or the customers for "being cheap". I've also left the club on busy nights with literally zero dollars while other girls made bank. What I make depends - every time - on my outlook, my mindset, my feeling of self-worth and my motivation to work. What anyone else does outside of you has zero effect on you. If I go into the club knowing that I'm a bad ass bitch, I bank every time. If I go into the club with a shit attitude, desperate or pissy, I don't make money.
You are an independent contractor. You are your own business. If you are not profiting from your business, that is no ones fault but your own. Other girls are irrelevant to you unless they are helping you make money. If they aren't, forget about them. Customers are irrelevant to you unless they are helping you make money. If they aren't, on to the next one. You are here to make your money and leave, not compete with other girls or talk down on them out of some deep-rooted insecurity ("at least I'm not a ho." Bitch, you are a stripper, you are as close to a ho as a priest is to a monk).
Another girl sit with "your" customer? Find a new customer. If he wanted you, he'd tell her no. No other customers in the club? Time to find a new club. If where you are and what you are doing is not serving you, it is up to you to change it. No one else.
TL,DR - You are the only reason for the money that you make. Everyone else is irrelevant.
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There were two great "mileage wars" on the site, where a dancer admitted she didn't mind the high mileage and maybe even enjoyed it a bit; boy were those flame wars to remember and resulted in many lost female members on both occasions.
Then there was a newbie dancer who admitted she actually got excited when a customer touched her during a lap dance. How dare she admit that maybe, just maybe, some girls admit they voluntarily get into sex work because they kinda sorta enjoy sex? I think she was hounded off the site in record time. I cannot even count the number of posts where dancers remind us "it's not lubrication from being excited, it's just a vaginal discharge."
Of course my own personal experience about SW girls and mileage is this: of the 30 SW dancers I've met over the years, 29 provided higher or MUCH higher mileage than what they pretend they do online.
CP
These women seem to forget they're not doing retail but on commision. Independent contractor eauals commision. Which means its not how long you work its how hard. Stripping is like an jndermined career. If you work hard you get paid hard. Like blaming other people for your lack of bills, go work retail. Everyone gets paid the same (per level).
Some dancers never get a thick skin about being told no. They hear a certain number of nos and take a long, long break to recover from the "trauma".
Some dancers get upset and have a mini meltdown because somebody acts annoyed when they ask them for a dance. When obviously, if a guy's idiot enough to get annoyed about being asked for a dance in a strip club, he's probably too annoyed to reach around and whip his ass because it isn't in the front.