Dancer claims I offended her.

Last week I was in the Coliseum in Detroit and a dancer who usually camps right next to me and hustles me for drinks and meals refused to even say hello. I spoke to her, cordially, and asked her how she was doing. She replied that she would no longer speak to me because of what I said to her the last time I got dances from her. I may have been a few stiff drinks down (Makers Mark and ginger ale)and I don't recall exactly what I said. I do recall being annoyed that everytime I come in the club she comes on to me with the "wanna dance" greeting and bitches me out if I hesitate or say no. I vaguely recall telling her I don't like being treated like her personal ATM machine.

So now this dancer won't speak to me and is acting like a dumped or disrespected girlfriend. In the meantime other dancers have become more friendly and open.

Is it possible I have caused permanent damage to the ability to communicate? Will this damage, if it exists, cause difficulties with other dancers as the word gets around that I was rude? Or is it more likely that because I set her straight, I am now getting extra attention from others who see that this generous customer is available for all?

Advice, insights, criticisms or farts?