Having a boring Sat. night since I SCed last night.
b/w the boredom and the talk of SW lately; I decided to look at SW for the hell of it (hadn't looked at it in a while).
Came across the following SW thread:
"Extras in the damn club"
“ … They make me fucking sick.
I keep reading the posts around here, on stripclublist, on TUSCL, and others, and am thoroughly nauseated.
I have said it over and over, but I really feel like this needs to be out there.
What ever happened to selling SEXUALITY in the strip club?
I'm here to tease you, dance angelically, flutter my eyelashes at you, make you laugh, make you feel important, etc.
I'm NOT here to have sex with you. Escorts are for that and they will do it quite enthusiastically and SAFELY!
Want extras? Get the fuck away from me …â€
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last comment"Whatever happened to selling SEXUALITY in the strip club?"
Xtras are selling SEXUALITY!
Perhaps the words used should have been "flirting & fantasy in Clubs".
No doubt she & I would NEVER do business.
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Lol Papi ...are you at all surprised?
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That was good for a laugh, thanks papi. So much obvious delusion.
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And you expected WHAT? LOL.
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I read that on SW the day it was posted. Then a few days later, I was blown on back to back nights by two different dancers in the VIP rooms of two different clubs. ;)
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Yeah I was weeping at the indignity of it all a couple of hours ago as that gorgeous 19 yo AA dancer was giving me a happy ending fingering in VIP. Boo fucking hoo!
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"I'm NOT here to have sex with you"
95% of Detroit dancers disagree. And the other 5% would probably have sex if you were willing to pay $1000.
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Stupid SW chick. Her competition is doing lite extra's for the same price as her mere "sexuality". If I want "sexuality", I'll go find a video booth and get myself off for $3.
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IMO, it isn't being delusional. Some people want to do extras, some people don't, but there isn't much of a point in complaining about it.
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BTW, what is considered "extra" anyway? Some girls on SW say that touching anywhere is, and touching breasts at least is considered de rigueur for my home club.
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For me, extras are HJ, BJ and FS.
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I ventured over to that site and could not believe some of the responses and topics. I am sure they feel the exact same way about this site though.
I agree with jack about extras. In the clubs I visit, if I can't touch then I am not buying a dance. I am always respectful and I will ask a dancer before I touch her, but I don't see how that is considered an extra. I have only had one dancer tell me that I could not touch. I am not going to grope a dancer but I feel that some touch/contact is needed and it makes things better for both parties.
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If she can't make me cum, piss and shit my pants ( extras) then fuck it !
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Juicebro... you always seem to be able to take a topic that is at "10" and ratchet it up to "11"
Most of us pervoids are ok with the cum, be it in or out of the pants. You also want to piss and shit...don't ever change my brother! Teach us ALL to go to ELEVEN!!!
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If the poster of that original SW post does not want to do extras, then she won't. Good for her.
If customers have no interest in being "teased," and will not choose to pay for teasing, then they won't. Good for them.
If other strippers choose to do extras, they will. Good for them.
All okay, until the typical SW poster says none of it is okay except for the way she would have it. EVERYONE must comply with the customer-hating SW way, or there will be hell to pay. That is what bugs me about SW attitude.
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What's the difference between a SW and a srtipper?
SW walks more
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That was one the best threads I have read on SW. Perhaps it is signalling a change to a more reality based culture over there.
I think the majority of women tend to communicate reality in terms of how they wish it would be versus the truth of the situation. Same is true on SW. The ladies wish they made a 1k a night giving air dances to well dressed gentlemen so they communicate that as fact. Reality is probably not that pretty.
Who knows though. I'm always impressed on how articulate most of those ladies are on SW. Perhaps they do make bank every night giving no extra air dancers to fugly old dudes that repulse them. However, that does not fit the reality I see in the SC.
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"Who knows though. I'm always impressed on how articulate most of those ladies are on SW"
I've noticed the same thing. Maybe I'm just hanging around the wrong clubs. The wrong dancers. But very few strippers I know communicate as well as the SW girls. I will acknowledge that most are pretty smart.
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