Property Of (enter strippers name here)
rell
washington dc
we have all seen this or been this guy before
when a dancer tries to hog your money from all the other dancers so she labels you as "hers" so other dancers wont go near you
this happend to me a few years back at a club i was frequenting dancer i used to get alot of dances with but i wanted to dance with other dancers hell i even had otc with another dancer.. she tells the other dancers that im hers.. that we go out on dates and im her man even know i didnt even have this chicks phone # lol. pissed me off.
who else here has gotten the tag put on them by a dancer?
when a dancer tries to hog your money from all the other dancers so she labels you as "hers" so other dancers wont go near you
this happend to me a few years back at a club i was frequenting dancer i used to get alot of dances with but i wanted to dance with other dancers hell i even had otc with another dancer.. she tells the other dancers that im hers.. that we go out on dates and im her man even know i didnt even have this chicks phone # lol. pissed me off.
who else here has gotten the tag put on them by a dancer?
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None of us like it or appreciate it – for me personally – no way in rell I would stand for that :)
Unless you really care about burning the bridge w/ that particular dancer; the best way to defeat this is to take control of the situation and approach dancers which otherwise would not approach you thinking you are so and so’s custie. This would show the dancer in question you are not into her exclusively and would let the other dancers know you are a free agent looking to get drafted.
This won't necessarily work, if all the other Dancers are intimidated by the "Claim" to your wallet. Best cure is not returning to the club until that dancer leaves or at all.
Yeah, right. I'm gonna forego a good club because a dancer wants to lay a claim to my wallet.
"If my *wife* can handle me having relations with other women, so can you."
The first time, the other girls made the decision. I had moved and was checking out a new club. I ended up spending most of the night with one girl. A couple days later I went back. About half way through the night, I mentioned to the girl that no other girl had stopped to see me. She said "Yeah, they decided you were mine and won't stop unless it's ok with me." Soon after that we were there together as customers and the problem was solved.
The other time was a royal pain in the ass. My ATF not only 'claimed' me but made threats of physical harm to any girl that danced for me before she did. The worst part was that the girls were so scared, she was gone from that club & out of the business over a year before any of them were brave enough to tell me the truth.
Yes I am a friend with stripper benefits and I pay her for dances just like anybody else but I would hardly call it a mint.
Grow up!
NOT a terrible thing as long as she keeps performing at a high level IMHO & IME. :)
As I have found out these last few weeks.
I looked her in the eye and said, "Actually, she's the one I came in to see."
"Oh."
But I draw the line at the crap that the OP describes. I've told VG to let me play or else I can't see her anymore. This keeps her in check because she loves my money. She doesn't like my slutiness but she has no choice but to tolerate it because I don't give her a choice.
Why do people resurrect ancient random threads like this?
Obviously enough, I'm not a fan of passive-aggressive beta male tactics like avoiding a club just because a dancer is acting entitled. It's part of her hustle, no big deal, just pretend you have testicles and assert yourself a tiny bit.
Perhaps a little easier for me to say since my M.O. is that I pick a girl and stick with her for the entire trip, and expect her to stick with me. But I can and do dismiss girls as soon as they approach, if that's not the girl I want to spend the day with.
Oh, and ATATF != DS !!!
If you want other girls, then their are other strip clubs.
SJG