Turning Down Dances?
enquiz2001
Florida
Sunday, January 22, 2006 3:38 PM
What do you say to turn down LD's? I just say "Not right now, thanks. Maybe later." If I'm at a place for a while - like I was today - and am looking for one dancer, the dollar parade can get a little tiresome. I just started telling the girls who came by for the second and third time that I'm out of singles - before they started anything. Do you think that's an insult to them?
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I wish there was a simple system to deal with the girls, but I guess the biggest problem is the girls get so much BS they don't know what to believe. Then again, we get a fair share of BS too. I guess too, if I really want to get a dance with a girl after I've been there a while, I can always get up off my fat ass and ask. Have you noticed some postings where the guys seem to have problems doing this? Oh wait - that's for another discussion.
"I just got here and would like to get settled before I decide on dances"
"Not right now thank you"
"I am waiting for a friend"
If I'm absolutely sure I don't want a dance I'll say firmly No thanks. If I'm not sure or if the dancer is extremely persistent in asking I'll say maybe later knowing that I might see her again.
If I'm not sure but am considering the dancer, I may say, I just got here and wanted to drink a beer or two first but you can come back and ask again later. Just to let her know I may be interested but not right now since that line is so common. It doesn't matter if you've been there for a while since the dancer doesn't know at that point.
As far as hurting feelings I wouldn't worry. You can always offer to let a dancer sit with you and see if she does when she knows you aren't going to buy dances.
Apparently some guys are on the other extreme about not worrying about dancer's feelings. example
dancer: "do you mind if I sit at your table?"
guy: "hell yes, now get lost!"
I had an upset dancer tell me this story which actually seems amusing in hindsite. She was going off talking about there must be something in the water which I thought was funny. I've had quite a few dancers sit at my table even after I said I wasn't interested in any dances. I never did tell that dancer she was approaching the same tables that one bitch of a dancer was annoying everyone with her obnoxious attitude. Oh well.
Then there are customers who complain that when they say "maybe later" they really mean it, but girls take it as a no and never come back. Those guys need to realize what "maybe later" means in a strip club and say something else more positive and specific. She's probably just had 10 other guys say "maybe later" meaning no, so you can't count on her to file away yours differently.