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One prospect or multiple prospects for OTC?

reignfire

South Carolina

I've been going to clubs for awhile but I haven't had any OTC action in years so I'm rusty. I have been doing ITC activities for years because it's easier and that's what most of dancers deal with but now those dancers are getting out of the game so I'm back to trying to find new ones for ITC/OTC action. Lately, I've met a few dancers that I've gotten to know that seem to be down for OTC because ITC action with them ain't happening (aside from HJs). One dancer propositioned me weeks ago but both of us were pretty drunk at the time. She said that if she and I did a Champagne Room and see how it goes then we could then meet outside for some more fun. I told her that I've never gone to the Champagne Room before and if I did, it wouldn't be for awhile. I think she understood but I don't know (I haven't seen her since).

She also wanted to know if I had been with any other dancers in the club so that she doesn't have to worry about other dancers either talking about her or confrontations with another dancer. I told her no (which is the truth) but I have been trying to hook up with other dancers. I've forgotten how to handle situations like this. In the past, I just lied to their faces knowing that most of them were already seeing customers OTC as well but now, I've been dealing with are pretty straight forward and show little to no hustle. The one I was talking to had been pretty straight with me and didn't show much interest so I never asked her about OTC. Any ideas on how to handle this dancer as well as other dancers from now on? I know that I'm probably overthinking it and should tell them whatever they want to hear but again I'm not sure since I've been out of the OTC scene for years.