Being associated with a specific dancer?
metrocard11
So lately, I've been really focused on one particular upscale club. I tend to hit this spot up on the weekends, around the same time, and for the most part I've come to expect the same dancers working when I go in.
On my most recent trip, as I entered, the doorman said something to the effect of "Your girl just got here a few minutes ago". I'm thinking to myself, "my" girl? I had only visited two times prior in my life, and both of those visits were only a few weeks earlier. Granted, I took the same girl to VIP on both visits, but only twice.
This time, I wanted to try some other dancers. Miss Girl Next Door comes over...we hit it off...I say let's go to VIP...and then she hits me with "I'd love to, but you're so and so's customer." This is the same girl I took to VIP on my prior visits. Then we got into a back and forth talking about stupid stripper code bullshit about not stealing each other's customers. Oh well...more ca$h for me then.
Now, there isn't anything wrong with having a favorite, but that's not the direction I'm aiming for at the moment. I guess my question is this: at what point do club staff affiliate you with a certain dancer, and what are some good ways to avoid being branded as that dancer's customer? I don't have any qualms about telling someone otherwise, but damn!!
On my most recent trip, as I entered, the doorman said something to the effect of "Your girl just got here a few minutes ago". I'm thinking to myself, "my" girl? I had only visited two times prior in my life, and both of those visits were only a few weeks earlier. Granted, I took the same girl to VIP on both visits, but only twice.
This time, I wanted to try some other dancers. Miss Girl Next Door comes over...we hit it off...I say let's go to VIP...and then she hits me with "I'd love to, but you're so and so's customer." This is the same girl I took to VIP on my prior visits. Then we got into a back and forth talking about stupid stripper code bullshit about not stealing each other's customers. Oh well...more ca$h for me then.
Now, there isn't anything wrong with having a favorite, but that's not the direction I'm aiming for at the moment. I guess my question is this: at what point do club staff affiliate you with a certain dancer, and what are some good ways to avoid being branded as that dancer's customer? I don't have any qualms about telling someone otherwise, but damn!!
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The only way I avoid it is by rotating thru a ton of clubs and not letting anyone get their claws in me if I can help it.
The second time, years later in a different club, I tried the same line and she walked off. Afterwards NONE of the dancers would come near. I didn't go back to that club for months and a few dancers avoided me even that much later.
No dancer is going to “force†a customer into dances or VIP he/lopaw does not want – if the custie wants to do something w/ another dancer it is b/c he/lopaw wants to not b/c the “other dancer†forced him/lopaw into it.
It's true - but I still hate being known to everyone in the club as "her" guy
Not for me. I STRONGLY prefer the single ATF system.
It happens, especially in the smaller clubs. Honestly, if there was an easy way to deal with it I would like to hear it.
Often that tactic doesn't work. The sure way is the use of another club.
Sure, some get angry, but never fall for this bizarro world bullshit that they own you. They'll have a funeral for your lost wallet, and then life moves on. They're born hustlers.