How do you approach her about OTC? Let me say I met this stripper last night and we hit it off really well. I was hinting all night about meeting her for some fun. She agreed that I should text her tomorrow. She gave me her number.
So, my question is, how do I approach it? Should I ask her to meet me for dinner, or do I just negotiate a price for sex?
She may not have wanted to discuss it openly in the club. That's likely why she asked you to text her. Just get the conversation started. There's a wealth a material on TUSCL about members' experiences with OTC. I recommend you do a search for OTC with TUSCL. Just enter "OTC" in the search bar and you'll come up with a long list. See:
Should you have further questions, just come back to your original thread and ask. You'll get plenty of advice. "Mileage" and "OTC" are probably the two most favorite topics.
In case you weren't sure, her giving you a phone number or e-mail address is no sign she does OTC. If I were you, I'd just text her and ask "when can I see you again?" She may just answer telling you when she's working again at the club. My impression is that, 90+% of the time, a stripper who does P4P will offer you that option when she's ready.
I have recently started asking strippers this question. I don't know how other guys have done it, and honestly I don't give a shit. I agree with London that it needs to be done diplomatically. I tend to be almost apologetic about it. I say, "I'm not intending to be offensive by asking this, but do you meet customers outside the club?" If the answer is yes, I then ask about price. So, that's my approach. However, maybe others are simply bold enough to come right out with it, but I am more demure.
She’s a stripper and knows what goes on in SCs better than you do.
She won’t be “shocked†if you just ask her and even if she says no I’m pretty sure she will still take your $$$ and give you LDs (if you want them).
If you are still apprehensive, you could ask her something along the lines of “do you do private shows outside the club?†– and if she is willing to meet you OTC, then there’s a strong possibility she’s open for business.
I'm still trying to figure out what causes some dancers to think I'm interested in sleeping with them without even talking to them. I remember I tipped one dancer a dollar on stage. She came over and started talking about sex and how we could go to a hotel room. Granted this was several months ago at a club I haven't visited in months but I was wondering what was it about the one dollar tip that caught her attention? Did she have me confused with someone who tipped her a twenty or something? Probably I thought. After I turned down sex for a fee, she tried to get dances. Somehow dances didn't have the same appeal.
Strippers who don't do OTC or touching that's against the law or club rules resent the ones who do. Amateur athletes who don't dope resent the ones who do, even when there's no money involved. So it's to be expected that "cheating" is going to be resented by competitors who don't cheat when there IS money involved. Bringing up the topic of OTC or extras with a stripper who doesn't do them is not going to have a good effect on her mood.
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Should you have further questions, just come back to your original thread and ask. You'll get plenty of advice. "Mileage" and "OTC" are probably the two most favorite topics.
She won’t be “shocked†if you just ask her and even if she says no I’m pretty sure she will still take your $$$ and give you LDs (if you want them).
If you are still apprehensive, you could ask her something along the lines of “do you do private shows outside the club?†– and if she is willing to meet you OTC, then there’s a strong possibility she’s open for business.
Exactly.
PB, you asked your question and you already got your answer. The "text me tomorrow" response was just a way of putting you off.