Why CIM? Humiliation
georgmicrodong
Just a fat, creepy old pervert.
So, Carolynne asked a question in the comments on my S&M article:
"how come u guys seem to think that bbbjcim is humiliating for the woman, but you always want us to do it? what does that say? and u wonder why we get testy"
My answer to her was this:
...that's not the deal for me. Letting me cum in her mouth is more about not stopping and changing the sensation than it is about humiliation. When I'm getting a blowjob, I like that same wet, tongue swirling, sucking, compression sensation to continue all the way through orgasm. Changing that just as I'm about to cum reduces my enjoyment.
To that I'll add, without a doubt, if she finds it humiliating, and she likes that sort of thing, I'll get a further kick out of making her do it, but it's not the primary motivation. And on the flip side, if she doesn't want me cumming in her mouth, irrespective of the reason, I won't. To be fair to me, I'll do *almost* anything that feeds her kink, because her positive reactions, of whatever type, tend to feed my pleasure as well. I do have my limits, no scat, blood or permanent marks or injuries, but if *she* enjoys it, I probably will.
One of the reasons I don't mind a cover, even for blowjobs, is that most girls who don't want you cumming in their mouths don't have any problem with not stopping if there's no danger of jizz in the mouth.
"how come u guys seem to think that bbbjcim is humiliating for the woman, but you always want us to do it? what does that say? and u wonder why we get testy"
My answer to her was this:
...that's not the deal for me. Letting me cum in her mouth is more about not stopping and changing the sensation than it is about humiliation. When I'm getting a blowjob, I like that same wet, tongue swirling, sucking, compression sensation to continue all the way through orgasm. Changing that just as I'm about to cum reduces my enjoyment.
To that I'll add, without a doubt, if she finds it humiliating, and she likes that sort of thing, I'll get a further kick out of making her do it, but it's not the primary motivation. And on the flip side, if she doesn't want me cumming in her mouth, irrespective of the reason, I won't. To be fair to me, I'll do *almost* anything that feeds her kink, because her positive reactions, of whatever type, tend to feed my pleasure as well. I do have my limits, no scat, blood or permanent marks or injuries, but if *she* enjoys it, I probably will.
One of the reasons I don't mind a cover, even for blowjobs, is that most girls who don't want you cumming in their mouths don't have any problem with not stopping if there's no danger of jizz in the mouth.
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Not about humiliation at all for me. Its the best part of a bbbj. I don't care if she spits or swallows, but cim is important to me.
Not everyone of them would swallow and some would spit.
I just thought it was natural. After all, I let the girls cum in my mouth.
Heck yea!
Most people don't understand S&M. The bottom always has a safe word or safe gesture in a proper session to bring things to a halt. Many bottoms need to be "forced" - that is, they have a couple hang ups (to put it mildly). This way they can be bad, but not be "responsible" for it.
Right ON pablo!!
Face it, the consistency of semen is probably about like raw oysters, and I know a lot of people that gag on raw oysters. A sudden blast on the back of your throat probably would't feel great and I am surprised that more women don't gag while doing DT and getting spunked. So if you are considerate and give some warning and allow her to either hang in there or bail, as she chooses, then you'll probably get repeat business. But if you want to act out some scene from Gag on my Thick Cock Bitch dot com, you'll probably get what you deserve.
If BJ is bad was is a 69??
Exactly. Most people thing of S&M as just one person beating on the other, but there's a whole mental thing going on, too. A *healthy* dom/sub relationship involves considerably more trust that most sexual ones.