I work in a casino environment and to judge a player based on what they do in their leisure time is patently absurd. It really all depends on the type of player. We have a guy that sticks to the same $1 exacta box, with three combo NONE of which are related. That guy is a pathetic loser (when he bets). To make a judgment about the rest of his life based on one small aspect of it is ridiculous. It shouldn't be to hard to find a dancer that is more upbeat about things and not willing to make the quick score by feigning interest immediately (hands all over you, coming on styrong verbally etc)
I think the attitude strippers hold towards there customers is very similar to the attitude casino employees hold toward their customers: Yeah, if a guy is just in there once in a blue moon blowing off a few dollars for fun then the attitude is neutral. It's the regulars they hold in contempt, rather than being apprectative of all the money they are dumping. Heck, they might even act nice and off the occasional "comp" but ask them off the record what their attitude toward the regular is...
That somewhat surprises me. Usually I favour the same girl or two whenever I go to clubs but I'd think if the guy has a decent job, dresses sharp and doesn't embarrass himself by propositioning the girl or groping than if the girl wants to think me a pathetic loser I ain't gonna lose any sleep over it. Funny this topic came up tho yesterday because I went to a club and there was a point during conversation I felt very much like the pathetic loser.
Many strippers think that their customers are pathetic losers. This is especially true of regular customers. And almost w/o fail for customers who buy them gifts or pay or talking about paying to see them outside of work.
If I was ever with a stripper that thought I was a pathetic loser I would instantly disabuse myself of any notion of getting a dance from them or even talking to them. I can't imagine any dancer that'd give off a vibe like that. Not if they're any good. If YOU thought you were a pathetic loser than I'd seek professional help to raise that ol self-esteem.
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last commentI work in a casino environment and to judge a player based on what they do in their leisure time is patently absurd. It really all depends on the type of player. We have a guy that sticks to the same $1 exacta box, with three combo NONE of which are related. That guy is a pathetic loser (when he bets). To make a judgment about the rest of his life based on one small aspect of it is ridiculous. It shouldn't be to hard to find a dancer that is more upbeat about things and not willing to make the quick score by feigning interest immediately (hands all over you, coming on styrong verbally etc)
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Certainly true about poker dealers. I am not sure about other games. In case, do you agree if I a substitute "employees" with management in the post?
(Nice to see you back, btw. Missed you.)
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Bullshit. Many if not most of the dealers I play with are players themselves. Now management is another story...
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I think the attitude strippers hold towards there customers is very similar to the attitude casino employees hold toward their customers: Yeah, if a guy is just in there once in a blue moon blowing off a few dollars for fun then the attitude is neutral. It's the regulars they hold in contempt, rather than being apprectative of all the money they are dumping. Heck, they might even act nice and off the occasional "comp" but ask them off the record what their attitude toward the regular is...
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That somewhat surprises me. Usually I favour the same girl or two whenever I go to clubs but I'd think if the guy has a decent job, dresses sharp and doesn't embarrass himself by propositioning the girl or groping than if the girl wants to think me a pathetic loser I ain't gonna lose any sleep over it. Funny this topic came up tho yesterday because I went to a club and there was a point during conversation I felt very much like the pathetic loser.
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Many strippers think that their customers are pathetic losers. This is especially true of regular customers. And almost w/o fail for customers who buy them gifts or pay or talking about paying to see them outside of work.
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If I was ever with a stripper that thought I was a pathetic loser I would instantly disabuse myself of any notion of getting a dance from them or even talking to them. I can't imagine any dancer that'd give off a vibe like that. Not if they're any good. If YOU thought you were a pathetic loser than I'd seek professional help to raise that ol self-esteem.
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