Hey dudes:
Happy Holidays to all of you stellar gents! I haven't been doing much internet of an "adult" nature lately for a variety of reasons, so I thought that now that I'm getting a little bit of the ol' horn-dog fix, I'd just say greetings to you all. If I'm not around for a while, don't worry, I probably haven't been hit by a bus (yet). I'm having a great email conversation with one of our other TUSCL members via an anonymous but non-TUSCL email address, and I'm keeping in touch with developments in the adult industry in general, but I'm not indulging in it myself for a while.
I hold you all (well, most of you) in pretty high esteem, and I am kinda proud to be a member of this (usually) supportive outfit. TUSCL has developed of its own accord into a decent little corner of the internet, where even though non-mainstream discussions are allowed and encouraged, nevertheless generally decorum rules. Guys who spend a lot of money on strippers know, deep down, that we're all hurting a little bit over something or other. Maybe it's just that we are lonesome for the hot bodies of women that we want to fondle and grasp. Maybe it's pain (as it is for me, though it might not be for you) derived of a sense of failure with women, a sense that the desirable ones would probably never want me as much as I want them. Maybe it's something Freudian about hating or wanting to fuck our mothers or something else weird. Or maybe a cigar is just a cigar and we like hot naked chicks! In whatever case, I think it's pretty cool that mostly we support one another in our interests and addictions and proclivities. There's not a lot of, "Goddamn man I can't believe you would want to have a lapper from a Black (or White, or Asian, or fat, or skinny, or tattoo-covered, or not-tattoo-covered, or whatever) woman, they're disgusting." I see a lot more of, "Well, hey, she's not MY type, but she is YOUR type, and that's great, because that means more of my type for me and your type for you and ..."
Well, you know what I mean. Don't feed the energy monsters. TUSCL has a great "anti-troll" function -- you just hit the ol' ignore list!
Happy holidays.
BG
