How many of you fine fellas take your ATF and or dancers out for a realy good fuckin meal ? Ant talking all you can eat at bubbas barbaque or macDonalds.....but places were the bill is $100 not counting the tip .....I do about 2 a month
Twice a month? You are too much of a high roller for lil' ol' me. I have done it five times over the last few years, 3 times with the same girl in NYC and two other times, with two different gals, in other areas. It was fun, but also more complicated than I normally prefer.
Juice, I'll just bet that they know your face well over at the Chop House, you sly dog you. ;) I'll bet that it is a rare treat for your favorite gals over at Lady Godiva's, who are not doubt VERY unused to that sort of treatment - LOL.
I do. Most of time its a very enjoyable experience having a dinner date with a beautiful, young attentive woman.
My first OTC began with meeting the doll at a decent restaurant. By the time the day arrived I could barely remember what she looked like. Being the first time, I was nervous not knowing what to expect.
At the restaurant, in comes walking in this babydoll that was far younger looking and more beautiful than I imagined. I was floored.
I had a blast. She was attentive the whole time and seemed to be having just as much fun. No cell phones. No flirting with the bartender. No looking at the clock. It was a fucking great time.
I was hooked. I have had many other similar hook ups and the majority of them turn out to be just as much fun.
A first OTC with this particular girl and she wants steak so we go to a nice steakhouse and she orders a big steak them hardly touches it and takes it home. Likely to her boyfriend. No more expensive eateries. Chili's or Olive Garden Maybe no higher.
Many a guy enjoys the company of an attractive woman. For me, it definitely needs to be someone I feel I connected with; or she was smart enough to convince me we were connecting – either way it’s good.
I had a dinner date w/ a dancer about a year ago. She was 36 but looked in her 20s – no BS. She said she had modeled in New York in her 20s and I believed it – she was about 5â€9; beautiful beautiful face; and double DDs believe it or not.
First time we met at the SC we talked for about two hours w/o me spending any money on her – I eventually spent about $300 on her that night out of my own will (kinda :)) since I would most likely have spent that $$$ anyway and I’d rather her have it since she had spent two hours w/ me w/o asking for anything.
We exchanged #s after that first SC meeting and spoke a bit on the phone and we arranged a dinner date (just dinner). As w/ Lone_Wolf’s experience, she looked awesome when she showed up. She was dressed very very sexy but not slutty at all – she looked beautiful.
We agreed to meet in the parking lot of a 24 hour Walgreens (that was cool with me). We met, she jumped in my car, and I asked her where she’d like to go – she said she liked Houston’s Steak House so off we went (I like stake too).
It was a pretty packed weeknight and there were no parking spaces close to the restaurant. I dropped off “gorgeous†in front of the restaurant while I went to park (she was wearing high-heeled boots so I did not want her to have to walk too much – I am such a nice PL :)). When I am walking up to the front of the restaurant to meet her and go in, “gorgeous†tells me – “this lady about 50 came up to me and said – “I am not a lesbian or anything; but you are so beautifulâ€â€ – that is how good she looked. I DEFINITELY felt a bit taller walking in the restaurant with “gorgeousâ€.
“Gorgeous†had mentioned she’d had a particular steak the last time she had been at Houston’s but we did not see it on the menu? We asked the waitress about it and the waitress said it was a specialty item which wasn’t always available but they had it that night – it was a $48 steak. That was fine w/ me since I enjoy a good steak myself and like to treat myself when I go out to dinner. “Gorgeous†ordered the $48 steak and I ordered a cheaper steak that appealed to me (~$30).
Anyway, with dinner; tip; couple of glasses of wine; total came out to about $170 – and it was completely worth it to me and not b/c I am a PL; well I am :); but she was great to talk to; looked great; we left the restaurant arm-in-arm (which she initiated); and kissed a bit when we got to the car.
We talked a few times afterwards and were supposed to go out again; but she stood me up and that was the end of it. In all honesty; as good a time as we had; I did not want to get hooked up with a chick; at least not at the present time; I don’t want to give up my current ways – at least not for now. I am sure we could have hooked up again; but I’m very apprehensive about “hooking†up w/ a dancer – have the feeling it will co$t me no matter what and right now I rather spend my $$$ other ways.
Anyway; that was my brief :) recount of my last OTC dinner date.
P.S.
I had mentioned she had said she modeled in her 20s (currently she is 36). She had actually brought some of her modeling pics from back in the day to dinner that night and man she looked even better/more-beautiful in her 20s even though I (and others) thought she looked great at 36.
Adding on my original post on the subject. It is not always a pleasant experience.
One time the dancer said she was five minutes away from the restaurant so I went ahead and got seated at the table of a decent place. Ten minutes later I get a text saying she is almost there. Twenty minutes later I get another text saying she is almost there.
Meanwhile I'm sitting there alone, starving, looking like a fucking dumbass getting sympathetic smerks from the servers.
The dancer finally showed up dressed like a street walker, high, flustered and agitated. Complained of some BS stripper drama. Said she wasn't hungry.
It was a complete fucking expensive embarrassing disaster.
Apparently I attract dancers with simple tastes (at least in food). I always give them the option of where and the first one wanted Cracker Barrel. Her roommate thought she was nuts, but even when I took *her* out a month later, our total tab was maybe $60, including wine. Third one wanted El Generico tex-mex.
I did this once with a Vancouver dancer, took her to Le Crocodile which is an elegant room serving traditional French cuisine with an accompanying excellent wine list, one of Vancouver's finest restaurants. Huge mistake! I had to translate the menu for the girl (not unexpected). I had to explain which piece of cutlery was to be used with which course of the meal. (She had never seen a fish knife.) I had to make suggestions for her palate for each course of the meal. I had to discourage her from ordering a bottle of Mateus Rose as a wine accompaniment.
One upside was the look of pure rapture on her face when she tasted foie gras for the first time in her life. I didn't tell her what it really was; just told her that it was the most tender part of a goose.
The tab for the meal was completely wasted, I didn't even get laid.
I've been lucky in never going anyplace expensive. All but one dancer I met was more interested in doing something other than eating when we got together. I've had more than one dancer say no dinner, no dating, etc, she just wants one thing.
Farmerart, did you also give her elocution lessons? " The rain in Spain falls mainly by the plain."
Your experience is similar to a few I had in Phoenix. I didn't mind. At the time, I was a regular at Bandaids. The word go out that I might take a girl to a good restaurant. Friendliness quotient went way up.
One night I ate by myself at Avanti, a well known place. I ordered a lamb chop dinner for takeout and brought it to the club for a Jamaican girl who was a semi ATF. She wolfed it down, sitting with me at the bar. Several other girls cycled by. Really mixed expressions on their faces! The bartender commented that my girl had a preference for "rich meat". Chuckles all around.
All of this comes under the heading of "Yeah, I'm a PL at times, but it was fun" (props to Papi_Chulo for admitting it as well).
I have taken various strippers to dinner, and my ATF and I enjoy going to restaurants fairly often. However, it's a waste to go to high end restaurants. Strippers think Outback Steakhouse is fine dining.
I readily admit to being tuscl's most outrageous PL. The tale of this $750 meal is just one of many many instances that demonstrates exactly how pathetic I can be.
I have shared other meals with dancers since that fiasco at Le Crocodile - bruschetta and pasta in the club or chips and nuts from my hotel room's minibar. I have even shared my own culinary skills with dancers weekending at Rancho farmerart. Sounds like jackslash has learned this lesson also.
Happily, those occasions usually ended with a sweet 'sexual dessert'.
I did it once. It was a fun time. I've got to say that the best part was walking into the main dining area and watching all the men stare and crane their heads at my favorite dancer.
I've done it many times but only with 3 dancers and never to an extremely expensive restaraunt. Sometimes they paid. One time she said that she wanted to dress up. She said "I want to watch the tongues wag when I kiss you and call you daddy".
Don't take strippers out to eat but do enjoy an occasional dinner date with an escort. I recently picked up a dancer when her shift at the club was over and we had a fine meal at Gandy Dancer in Ann Arbor before we had "dessert" back at my hotel room. Both dinner and "dessert" were yummy!
Rick, if your in NYC its not that hard to rack up your bill to $100 without tip. You act its a complicated process. You can go to cipriani's and rack it up with an appitizer.
Estafador, I am talking about the process of planning and meeting them for dinner dates. Strippers are flaky by nature and advance planning is not their forte. Last minute cancellations and even no-shows are not uncommon.
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My first OTC began with meeting the doll at a decent restaurant. By the time the day arrived I could barely remember what she looked like. Being the first time, I was nervous not knowing what to expect.
At the restaurant, in comes walking in this babydoll that was far younger looking and more beautiful than I imagined. I was floored.
I had a blast. She was attentive the whole time and seemed to be having just as much fun. No cell phones. No flirting with the bartender. No looking at the clock. It was a fucking great time.
I was hooked. I have had many other similar hook ups and the majority of them turn out to be just as much fun.
Many a guy enjoys the company of an attractive woman. For me, it definitely needs to be someone I feel I connected with; or she was smart enough to convince me we were connecting – either way it’s good.
I had a dinner date w/ a dancer about a year ago. She was 36 but looked in her 20s – no BS. She said she had modeled in New York in her 20s and I believed it – she was about 5â€9; beautiful beautiful face; and double DDs believe it or not.
First time we met at the SC we talked for about two hours w/o me spending any money on her – I eventually spent about $300 on her that night out of my own will (kinda :)) since I would most likely have spent that $$$ anyway and I’d rather her have it since she had spent two hours w/ me w/o asking for anything.
We exchanged #s after that first SC meeting and spoke a bit on the phone and we arranged a dinner date (just dinner). As w/ Lone_Wolf’s experience, she looked awesome when she showed up. She was dressed very very sexy but not slutty at all – she looked beautiful.
We agreed to meet in the parking lot of a 24 hour Walgreens (that was cool with me). We met, she jumped in my car, and I asked her where she’d like to go – she said she liked Houston’s Steak House so off we went (I like stake too).
It was a pretty packed weeknight and there were no parking spaces close to the restaurant. I dropped off “gorgeous†in front of the restaurant while I went to park (she was wearing high-heeled boots so I did not want her to have to walk too much – I am such a nice PL :)). When I am walking up to the front of the restaurant to meet her and go in, “gorgeous†tells me – “this lady about 50 came up to me and said – “I am not a lesbian or anything; but you are so beautifulâ€â€ – that is how good she looked. I DEFINITELY felt a bit taller walking in the restaurant with “gorgeousâ€.
“Gorgeous†had mentioned she’d had a particular steak the last time she had been at Houston’s but we did not see it on the menu? We asked the waitress about it and the waitress said it was a specialty item which wasn’t always available but they had it that night – it was a $48 steak. That was fine w/ me since I enjoy a good steak myself and like to treat myself when I go out to dinner. “Gorgeous†ordered the $48 steak and I ordered a cheaper steak that appealed to me (~$30).
Anyway, with dinner; tip; couple of glasses of wine; total came out to about $170 – and it was completely worth it to me and not b/c I am a PL; well I am :); but she was great to talk to; looked great; we left the restaurant arm-in-arm (which she initiated); and kissed a bit when we got to the car.
We talked a few times afterwards and were supposed to go out again; but she stood me up and that was the end of it. In all honesty; as good a time as we had; I did not want to get hooked up with a chick; at least not at the present time; I don’t want to give up my current ways – at least not for now. I am sure we could have hooked up again; but I’m very apprehensive about “hooking†up w/ a dancer – have the feeling it will co$t me no matter what and right now I rather spend my $$$ other ways.
Anyway; that was my brief :) recount of my last OTC dinner date.
P.S.
I had mentioned she had said she modeled in her 20s (currently she is 36). She had actually brought some of her modeling pics from back in the day to dinner that night and man she looked even better/more-beautiful in her 20s even though I (and others) thought she looked great at 36.
One time the dancer said she was five minutes away from the restaurant so I went ahead and got seated at the table of a decent place. Ten minutes later I get a text saying she is almost there. Twenty minutes later I get another text saying she is almost there.
Meanwhile I'm sitting there alone, starving, looking like a fucking dumbass getting sympathetic smerks from the servers.
The dancer finally showed up dressed like a street walker, high, flustered and agitated. Complained of some BS stripper drama. Said she wasn't hungry.
It was a complete fucking expensive embarrassing disaster.
Most go very well though.
One upside was the look of pure rapture on her face when she tasted foie gras for the first time in her life. I didn't tell her what it really was; just told her that it was the most tender part of a goose.
The tab for the meal was completely wasted, I didn't even get laid.
Your experience is similar to a few I had in Phoenix. I didn't mind. At the time, I was a regular at Bandaids. The word go out that I might take a girl to a good restaurant. Friendliness quotient went way up.
One night I ate by myself at Avanti, a well known place. I ordered a lamb chop dinner for takeout and brought it to the club for a Jamaican girl who was a semi ATF. She wolfed it down, sitting with me at the bar. Several other girls cycled by. Really mixed expressions on their faces! The bartender commented that my girl had a preference for "rich meat". Chuckles all around.
All of this comes under the heading of "Yeah, I'm a PL at times, but it was fun" (props to Papi_Chulo for admitting it as well).
I readily admit to being tuscl's most outrageous PL. The tale of this $750 meal is just one of many many instances that demonstrates exactly how pathetic I can be.
I have shared other meals with dancers since that fiasco at Le Crocodile - bruschetta and pasta in the club or chips and nuts from my hotel room's minibar. I have even shared my own culinary skills with dancers weekending at Rancho farmerart. Sounds like jackslash has learned this lesson also.
Happily, those occasions usually ended with a sweet 'sexual dessert'.