$ out weighs being a jerk... true story
cnyknight
New York
At a go-go bar last night near the hotel ive been staying at. Kind of a dive but there is a dancer there who has amazing naturals and wears a corset where they spill out of. She pushes the limits of what should be allowed so i put up with the atmosphere to get lappers from her.
When i get there for happy hour, classic drunk jerk already at the bar making trouble. Talking crap left and right, grabbing at the girls, bothering customers etc. We all know the type.
No bouncer as its a go go bar but the bartender is a pretty tough biker tat chick, kind that would bust a bottle over a skull if needed. Seen her throw out a few dudes in the past. Yet this guy is still causing issues.
I took a seat in the corner near the game machine, away from drama. One girl there at the time, my fav who has come over to me a few times and i ask her about the jerk. She gives me the hes a dirt bag speech and a great lapdances and says she will eb right back.
I watch her come back and douchebag intercepts, they get into a screaming match, she tells him to f-off and as she walks away seemingly pissed he grabs her and buys a drink.
This goes on for hours, guy prob throws around 200 300 dollars in the course of 3 hours.
Money apparently can buy u a douchebag pass ...
When i get there for happy hour, classic drunk jerk already at the bar making trouble. Talking crap left and right, grabbing at the girls, bothering customers etc. We all know the type.
No bouncer as its a go go bar but the bartender is a pretty tough biker tat chick, kind that would bust a bottle over a skull if needed. Seen her throw out a few dudes in the past. Yet this guy is still causing issues.
I took a seat in the corner near the game machine, away from drama. One girl there at the time, my fav who has come over to me a few times and i ask her about the jerk. She gives me the hes a dirt bag speech and a great lapdances and says she will eb right back.
I watch her come back and douchebag intercepts, they get into a screaming match, she tells him to f-off and as she walks away seemingly pissed he grabs her and buys a drink.
This goes on for hours, guy prob throws around 200 300 dollars in the course of 3 hours.
Money apparently can buy u a douchebag pass ...
19 comments
Women want a guy who's a bad boy on the outside, but a good boy on the inside. This guy, while being a complete a-hole, was a bad boy. Didn't give a fuck, did what he wanted. Not necessarily a bad thing in a woman's eyes. Although they'll probably tell you differently cuz they don't want to be seen as supporting some obvious a-hole.
Now, when he grabbed her (like a real bad boy does), he probably proceeded to show her the "good boy on the inside" part.
"Oh, I'm sorry baby", (girls love it when you apologize...makes 'em melt), and then "here, let me buy you a drink sweetie".
And at that point she had her bad boy on the outside, good boy on the inside, and she was off in dreamy-land.
Or, maybe he slipped her a couple $100 bills in her corset. Either way, she's happy.
The point being either she's there for attraction or money. But you're probably right, money is more likely.
I thought they were separate species of scum. Any woman that has either one at home I feel SORRY for. You make your choices and reap the consequences.
LOL
I pity so-called "men" who can't handle that.
Kindness doesn't pay the rent or buy groceries. And in the interest of avoiding an confusion, they do NOT view you as anything other than a creep or pervert just because you think of yourself as the "nice guy."
Because he is not young. He fucked things up in his own life and he is too old to correct things now even if he could he his shit together. His life is resigned to pay strippers for pussy he knows he will never get for free, and whim he knows actually despise him despite all his bluster here. He knows young people are either getting that pussy for free, or they are PLs who are paying, but still have time to turn it around. At 59 he long ago ran out of time to turn it around, and he is jealous of anyone not in the same rapidly sinking boat.