You seasoned club hounds know what I'm talking about. She says this right when you are sitting there with a raging hard-on and neither of you has a condom. She might have brought you close a few times, but she just didn't have the skills to finish you with her hands or mouth. Maybe you're in a club where she can't get away with giving you an extended BJ. Now you are horny as hell and she is offering to just slide you in. Your head may also be fuzzy with alcohol as you sit their in almost painful need of relief. She might even be hovering over your penis or even rubbing her lips along your shaft.
What do you do? Do you really have the strength to refuse her? Have you ever slipped and just let it happen?
Damn Rick. That happened to me just 8 days ago. She was rubbing her lips along the shaft and Oops. Hell of it was that I had a condom in my pocket. I told her the we shouldn't have done that. She said don't worry. My tubes have been tied. I said I wasn't worried about that. I had been fixed 35 years ago but I was more concerned about STD's. She said that she was clean. I sure hope so. I didn't get home until 3 hours later to give my dick a damn good scrubbing. Got my fingers crossed.
Probably perfectly safe. I'm sure you're the only one she does it for. Besides some people are just too good (in there own minds) to get STDs. I'm sure Rick is among them.
Anyways, there's latency periods. With herpes which 25% of people have it's 12-16 weeks and during that time they ate infectious. Even if she was tested yesterday, and wasn't lying may not know of anything recently contracted.
More fundamentally if she is that far into a downward spiral you can bet the gamble is pretty big.
But Rick is the kind of guy who beta equal amounts on red and black when he plays roulette. Has lost in the 20 times he's done it and can't see the problem...
Not for close to 30 years. When I was younger and incredibly stupid it happened a couple of times, but now that I'm older and only moderately stupid, it doesn't. I'm pretty good about making sure I'm prepared with the appropriate hazmat suit before ever going into the reactor core, and not going at all if I'm not prepared for the worst.
I have been asked this very question before starting, but I always bring protection if extras are available. Which isn't to say I can't catch something from BBBJ, but so far so good.
Been bugging me for a couple of months. My current ATF, she fucking jumped me a couple of months back. Neither of us had latex, she was just gonna do BBBJ (which is plain BJ according to shadowpussy's definition), but when I was absentmindedly looking at them ceiling, she saddles in one swift move and had me pinned. At my age, the back aches and so couldn't offer much resistance. Ever since, we've been barebacking and I doubled her fucking spending allowance. Still conflicted about that whole ordeal.
For you guys who'll let her rub her lips along the shaft but insist on a condom for penetration, what's your thinking? Do you think her secretions at the lips have a different viral load than the secretions inside the vagina? Or is it OK as long as you only get one side of your dick wet?
Great point, dtek. That aggressive dick rubbing with the lips is awfully enticing, but the exposure has already taken place.
I guess I have some follow-up questions for the board: If you guys walk in with protection ready, do you have it in your pocket? It is well-known about the hazards of putting it in your wallet, to say nothing of the ring-shaped indentation it makes. If you have it in your pants pocket, can the dancer feel it as she grinds? And if she does, does that that make it a conversation starter for extras? Can you put it on quickly and not get detected? Or do you walk in with it already wrapped? (And if you are thinking "Piss off, asshole, start your own thread" right now, I say mea culpa)
I was with one of my beautiful Latina favorites one night in the VIP. We had protected sex several times before, but this time neither of us brought a condom.
She said "did you bring one"? I said "I thought you had one"? We both laughed. 5 minutes later I was pounding her tight pussy for all I was worth and I was bareback.
Was one of the best nights of my life.
5 years later I still have fond memories of that night. Yes we were both clean.
Re the OP: hell no. My T-cells are more important than random pu$$y. (another good reason to keep the drinking under control)
@dtek & @larry, agree that exposured can occur under such circumstances, however acoring to wiki: anal is higher risk than vaginal & vaginal is higher risk than oral. (very low viral load in slavia as oral transmission is more likely from bleeding gums) women are at higher risk than men in hetero acts.
A white, hetro male (Rick gets two out of three here which ain't bad) could do Bbfs with each stripper in the country several times and not need to have a realistic concern about HIV. It's herpes and hsv you gotta be worried about.
@mjx01: Yeah, I understand the relative risks of various sex acts. I don't think it's the oral lips Rick & shadowcat are talking about though. And, as Doug points out, there are other more common STDs out there.
I have had to put a hand between spot and the slot as she was determined to put it in without cover or my permission (she claimed to be cleanand on the ring). As for just rubbing it along, read the review for 6th Avenue Dancers in Terre Haute,IN where a guy claims to have gotten a skin rash on his hand from a dancer's crotch.
Though I have never fucked a stripper before (oh dear god, how I want to), if approached with it, my two statemens would be the following:
How much does it cost (if she doesn't show romantic attraction)
And did you bring a condom.
I'm pretty sure I would never let something just "slip" though because I don't drink at the club. I only ask for juice and water. Why? Because beer is gross and since I'm a young guy, I've been taught the trick of the trades when it comes to social life. Never let go of your drink, and I've created a saying off of that rule.
"I don't drink what I don't pour." Don't care how gay it is, I didn't come to the strip club to get tipsy or beyond. I came to enjoy those titties and ass
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Nope. Quite often, I like my dick more than I like the stripper.
In Hawaii... last winter.... on vacation...hot willing dancer....drinking wine....warm evening...lovely sunset....secluded lanai...OOPS!!
Six months of blood tests say nothing nasty happened to me.
Whew!!
More fundamentally if she is that far into a downward spiral you can bet the gamble is pretty big.
But Rick is the kind of guy who beta equal amounts on red and black when he plays roulette. Has lost in the 20 times he's done it and can't see the problem...
I guess I have some follow-up questions for the board: If you guys walk in with protection ready, do you have it in your pocket? It is well-known about the hazards of putting it in your wallet, to say nothing of the ring-shaped indentation it makes. If you have it in your pants pocket, can the dancer feel it as she grinds? And if she does, does that that make it a conversation starter for extras? Can you put it on quickly and not get detected? Or do you walk in with it already wrapped? (And if you are thinking "Piss off, asshole, start your own thread" right now, I say mea culpa)
I was with one of my beautiful Latina favorites one night in the VIP. We had protected sex several times before, but this time neither of us brought a condom.
She said "did you bring one"? I said "I thought you had one"? We both laughed. 5 minutes later I was pounding her tight pussy for all I was worth and I was bareback.
Was one of the best nights of my life.
5 years later I still have fond memories of that night. Yes we were both clean.
But this was my exception to the rule.
@dtek & @larry, agree that exposured can occur under such circumstances, however acoring to wiki: anal is higher risk than vaginal & vaginal is higher risk than oral. (very low viral load in slavia as oral transmission is more likely from bleeding gums) women are at higher risk than men in hetero acts.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/HIV/AIDS
How much does it cost (if she doesn't show romantic attraction)
And did you bring a condom.
I'm pretty sure I would never let something just "slip" though because I don't drink at the club. I only ask for juice and water. Why? Because beer is gross and since I'm a young guy, I've been taught the trick of the trades when it comes to social life. Never let go of your drink, and I've created a saying off of that rule.
"I don't drink what I don't pour." Don't care how gay it is, I didn't come to the strip club to get tipsy or beyond. I came to enjoy those titties and ass