In or out of the closet?
motorhead
Fat, drunk and stupid is no way to go through life
In the thread about scanning ID's, I wrote that I had concerns about my name being put into a database as a strip club customer.
Yet, in the thread about Joe Redner, when asked if he was going to put in a private VIP entrance as did 2001 across the street, he was quoted as saying,
"I can't play to that part of human nature," sniffs Redner. "If you gotta hide from what you're doing, you shouldn't be doing it."
I rather like his attitude. For 30 years I've hid my "hobby" from family, friends, neighbors, co-workers. Sadly, I think if "outed", would be a source of embarrassment. But why? Should it be?
Time to re-evaluate.
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“Everyone has three lives: a public life, a private life, and a secret life.â€
— Gabriel GarcÃa Márquez
Changing the perception is possible. As Dougster points out, rappers are proud of visiting strip clubs, and black singers like Nicki Minaj embrace the strip club experience. Maybe we should all be trying to make strip clubs more main stream. Could we all start taking our friends and neighbors to strip clubs to show them the positive aspects of our activity?
@motorhead: Rene (a sissy name if there ever was one) kinda reminds me of you. Except for the looks dept I suppose.
There aren't really many socially tabu things out there besides inappropriate behavior with children or priests, paying women for sexual favors, or watching naked women perform. Maybe cockfights and U.S. Banking system controls could be added to the list.
I don't personally believe that a person has to be a Saint from birth to run for elected office. We're all human and all of us are flawed to some degree. (Except for those self proclaimed Saints)
So have fun at Strip Clubs. Just don't try to get elected. LOL
As far as Redner goes, seriously, who cares.
Shit, they will just make shit up - like Mitt is a Mexican, Obama is from Kenya, not Hawaii, Mitt and his magic underwear, Mitt belongs to a cult, Obama is a Muslim, etc.
For example, the comment above about "having" to go to strip clubs. I really don't get why anyone would "have" to go. Go to your local Walmart, or maybe one in a less affluent area - ugly, disgusting motherfuckers are hooking up like rabbits. No one "has" to go t a strip club to see titties and/or get laid. I'm not sure how desperation is so seemingly intertwined in the situation, but I can certainly see how someone might be embarrassed to go to a strip club as that seems to be a fairly common evaluation of a strip clubber.
I take my Scarlett's towel to the beach - the reactions are fucking priceless...
Txtittybrain does. Unless it's by jestie-girl who will eagerly provide those services for a couple of dollars.
I'm glad I don't rely on the internet for my self worth.
I'm glad I don't rely on the internet for my self worth.
She says, "I think SCs are a blight on the earth. Women who work there must be lost souls and guys that watch them are scumbags." Then she'll add, "Don't you agree?"
I of course do the only thing possible at a moment like that - obfuscate and redirect. The point is, civvy girls (at least older ones) hardly ever come out in favor of SCs and only a very small percent can tolerate them at any level. If they do, it's like they'll allow perhaps the annual night out with the boys or a bachelor party, but be prepared for the cold shoulder and sealed pussy when getting home.
Maybe younger girls are different? I do see some in the clubs with their dates, but I still gotta believe they wouldn't want their men fraternizing with the dancers without their presence.
So yes, my SC ways stay hidden.
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The correct retort to this is: "Huh? Did you say something? How about some road head?"