Ladies, be you dancers or civilians, how would you rather be treat by Men:
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With politeness, dignity, kindness, respect & with a gentlemanly attitude.
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As a nameless, faceless piece of meat to be pawed over, or as a nameless, faceless cum receptacle.
Which works for you ladies?
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last commentDepends on the lady. There are women who seek out abusers and trouble makers repeatedly over and over. Then there are those who will not put up with that nonsense. Then there is the S&M crowd where both are expected.
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I would appreciate #1. I won't deal with someone that isn't respectful.
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Who was it that said "treat a whore like a lady and treat a lady like a whore"?
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Talk about a Lessing question...
Have you stopped beating your wife yet?
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"lessing" should be "leading".
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I was wondering what possibly a woman named Doris Lessing might have to do with it.
"leading" Question
A person can always act like a Dyed-in-Wool politician & change the subject. LOL
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I treat people with respect unless they give me a reason not to. I expect the same from others, regardless of gender.
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Are the two mutually exclusive?
I think most of them/us want both at different times. I've known the same girl to crave detached purely sexual interaction & then in other instances view sex as a physical manifestation of an emotional connection. I know I'm that way; I tend to much more slowly oscillate between the two than most of the women (/dancers) I know, but we're all the same.
I can treat a dancer with respect and dignity while still largely treating her as an object. It's not much different with civi's, we can be nameless & detached while still respectful and dignified. Its pretty similar to the "relationship" I have with vehicles. I'm polite & respectful (well maintained, stored in a safe place, etc), but that doesn't mean I don't expect my truck to pull the boat out of the water or the Vette to prompt pompous assholes to consider trading in their exotics for real cars.
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Drac baby.....the juice talks a lot of greazy pimp talk on tuscl but in person I treat all my ladies with respect.......I read poems, bring flowers, massage their feet and so on.....I'm a true gentelman in person dawg.....a treu lover of the passions of casinova
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Drac, I know what you're getting at. Some ladys seek out guys who will treat them 'well' others seek out guys who treat them like dirt. IMO #2 seems harsh, but I know what you mean.
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"IMO #2 seems harsh, but I know what you mean.
I wanted to present like a worst case scenario.
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Ok Juice, I gotta know. The poetry you recite, is it Classical, Romantic, or Post-modern? Or is it more like:
"Juice and Ho,
Sitting in a tree,
F-U-C-K-I-N-G."
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