What's Your Name Again?

I want to know the real deal, not the same BS lines they tell every single other customer.

I don't care. I'm not here for a "relationship". I want sex. Sometimes a "real" (for a sufficiently stripper-like flexible definition of "real") story can make it more interesting, and sometimes it can make it more boring. So I listen to what she tells me, nod and express sympathy, or other appropriate sentiment, at the proper times, and then enjoy the sex.

Because really, that's what I'm there for.

Shallow? Hell, yeah. I have all the "relationship" I need (and then some) at home.

I never heard a sob story in a club. The girls I talk to are all happy, so yeah, I get them to open up and talk to me about this and that. Pleasant conversation.

I don't want to hear personal shit, unless it's very light. Where they're from, are they moving around, don't care what their name is...

It's not about "fantasy" or lack there of. I really just don't care, plus I don't really like providing much information about myself.

I don't think that it is cut and dried. Sometimes you feel a chemistry and sometimes you don't.

"I don't want to hear personal shit...don't care what their name is...I really just don't care"

So jester214, what do you care about in a Club? Only where you can make a "Deposit" & leave?

"I don't think that it is cut and dried. Sometimes you feel a chemistry and sometimes you don't"

You seem to have a little better understanding SC.

That I can look at naked women, drink, get some dances, relax... Not build a intimate relationships, which is what I believe you're looking for. I have good conversations with dancers, I just don't want them to be about personal stuff. And by "name" I meant real name, which some customers seem desperate to know.

Why would I care what her "back story" is? There is no fantasy. She's hot + she's entertaining to hang out with. Simple.

Plus you're working on the assumption that her "back story" is true.

I'm really not one for the "deposit", it's quite rare.

And have the decency to put the full quote in if you're gonna attempt to take some weak jab at me.

I can see both sides of this discussion. For me I want the real deal but there needs to be some chemistry to make it work.

"I want the real deal but there needs to be some chemistry to make it work.'

That is VERY, VERY true. And you NEVER know where you will find it. :)

I'm always interested in knowing something about the girl, but most of the time, they really aren't going to say anything that's absolutely true.

To become a favorite of mine, I have to know "...something about the Dancer's Back Story". And on the flip side, she will know some of mine. Only the ATF knows all.

"Only the ATF knows all."

That's Right!

Yes I want to know all her vital statistics including full background check and gynecological results before I choose a stripper

It depends. Some girls are visually appealing but lack the depth/desire to produce a connection. Some girls lack the strong visuals but have personality that can more than compensate. Then there's the rare alloy that blends both components to produce something better than both.

There's a part timer locally who's an absolute 11. I've seriously never seen a better looking girl, not in person/movies/pictures - I don't think I could piece together a prettier package Mr. Potato head style. Our conversations are very impersonal, despite the fact that she'll sit and chat for an hour or so. She's one of my favorite strippers of all time but I don't know her real name, what city she's from, relationship status, family history - nothing. Nor do I desire to.

But I guess as a general rule, yeah if I'm coming back for more its because I'm at least moderately interested in the person and if what I find doesn't suit me I'll move on quickly.

If I have chemisty with her then I will learn the real her and she me !....then I will add her to the stable with a chance of being my bottom bitch (ATF) but that's a tuff one ! My bottom bitch is 8 years running

Be careful about wanting to know the "backstory". Years ago I got to know a dancer. Her boyfriend was beating her ass every night. She asked me and several dancer friends for help. We lined up a plan for her to leave, one dancer made arrangements for her to stay a women's shelter. I gave her money. Other friends bought her shampoo and toothpaste and such. She let us all down. She went back to him in a week.

I still like knowing the backstory. Just smarter know. Live and learn.

Mo'head....next time just call me and talk to me before trying to take one of my girls away : )

Lol juice

That was the best Juice ism yet. I'm dying over here!

"She went back to him in a week"

Well you tried.

If she is determined to destroy herself...Well stay well clear.