Regular vs Drive By
travelguy10
So, I tend to prefer being a regular at a particular SC to bouncing around different clubs. Don't get me wrong, I do enjoy visiting different clubs while out of town.
The advantages I see in being a regular are as follows:
1) You get to know the bartenders and waitresses which seems to improve service
2) You get to know the bouncers and managers and get a feel for what will or will not be allowed. As an asside, it seems that is the bouncers know you, they let you get away with more because you are a valued customer.
3) You get to know the dancers, get to know who does what, let them know what your personal tastes are, etc.
4) It makes it less likely that dancers might be nervous that you are LE.
The disadvantages as I see them:
1) Same faces every time. This is partially made up for by the variety in most clubs and new dancers coming in.
2) Being branded by your favs so that other dancers don't approach you.
3) you see/notice more of the internal drama in any club
The advantages of playing the field:
1) Hot, new dancers wherever you go. The adventure of the new.
The disadvantages of playing the field:
1) Sometimes viewed with suspicion as to who you really are
2) Not knowing who will do what
What say you all?
The advantages I see in being a regular are as follows:
1) You get to know the bartenders and waitresses which seems to improve service
2) You get to know the bouncers and managers and get a feel for what will or will not be allowed. As an asside, it seems that is the bouncers know you, they let you get away with more because you are a valued customer.
3) You get to know the dancers, get to know who does what, let them know what your personal tastes are, etc.
4) It makes it less likely that dancers might be nervous that you are LE.
The disadvantages as I see them:
1) Same faces every time. This is partially made up for by the variety in most clubs and new dancers coming in.
2) Being branded by your favs so that other dancers don't approach you.
3) you see/notice more of the internal drama in any club
The advantages of playing the field:
1) Hot, new dancers wherever you go. The adventure of the new.
The disadvantages of playing the field:
1) Sometimes viewed with suspicion as to who you really are
2) Not knowing who will do what
What say you all?
21 comments
Good problem to have, I guess. One time recently, two of my favs were there together and piled up on me. I begged them to not make me cum, so I could enjoy more of the evening and some of the other girls. They (barely) complied, or maybe I was just good at diverting myself by thinking about Patricia Krentcil (the boner-killer tanning bed mom) while they ground against me.
Most of my visits are "drive by's" funny term you decided to use by the way, lol. I rarely travel, so my visits are usually to my local clubs which aren't all that great being that I live in Virginia. The main thing I like about going to different clubs is what you already mentioned: fresh faces.
Now I did enjoy the change of scenery but when it comes down to getting what I want at a strip club, being a regular is the only way to go.
I have never had a bouncer do a thing for me. They come and go just like waitresses.
I've had the same "problem," if you can call it that. One club I go to has a sucky VIP arrangement, so my favs know I never opt for it. I'm good for some friendly chit-chat, a drink or two, and a couple LDs. I usually pay for the dances and then give the same amount again for the tip and their company. So for two $10 LDs which would = $20, I give my favs $40 just because of the amount of time we spend total and because they ARE my favs - They're super attractive, great personalities, and a lot of sexy fun.
Also, since I like variety, I don’t like to get dances from the same dancers I may have gotten dances from a week or two prior – and I hate when a dancer(s) starts bugging me about wanting to dance for me b/c I may have gotten dances from them on a prior visit.
I don't feel like "teaching" new Dancers my preferences & needs. MY ATF KNOWS this info intimately & takes care of me each visit in a manner which new Dancers could not approach for a significant amount of time.
Regular: establishing and ATF and you know the menu, but you get tired of the same girls and at least in my case, xATF fallout.
drive by: novelity but less comfort IMO and usually less offered since you could be vice
Now in Canada for example, I would expect drive bys to work better since there would be less restriction on menu due to better laws. In this case it's basically comfort level vs. novelity.
I still get variety because new dancers appear at my clubs all the time.
As to being "branded" by a fav, sometimes it is usefull. Yesterday I was sitting with my current fav who I have an OTC arrangement with when another dancer who she knows I dont like barges up to the table asking for dances and just plain asking for money. My girl puts her hand on my crotch and says "mine". Then she puts her hand on my pocketand says "mine" The obnoxious dancer then just walked away.
I like that she said your cock belongs to her, but it might have been a tiny bit nicer not to claim your money that way right then. LOL
My ATF has the Shot girl help "defend" me from intruding Dancers. But I'm fully able to shoo away any Dancer trying to "claim jump", to borrow a phrase Art knows well. [Puns intended]
There are advantages and disadvantages to both in my experience. I'll agree that being a regular opens things up a lot more in some areas. Conversely, however, there are other areas where traveling businesssmen seem to do quite well. There is also the familiarity vs. novelty issues, which cut both ways.
Idk, but on the whole I think that I prefer being a traveler to being tied down to one club. The thing that tilts me in that direction is the drama involved in having a local favorite, which I have come to dislike.
Now, if Alberta clubs were high mileage like Detroit and Toronto clubs I would have regulars all over this province. OTC can be arranged in Alberta clubs but it is bloody hard tedious work and effing expensive at the end of the night.
In your situation Art, it SURE helps to have that bankroll to "lubricate" the social interaction with Dancers.