I've read some patron comments of late that seemed to indicate certain "Boredom" with seeing the same Dancer on a continuing basis as an ATF. Personally I found that curious. I've been "Playing" this game since the very early 1990's. I've had maybe 3 or 4 dancers who I would consider ATF Dancers, who I saw on a pretty much continuing basis. I greatly desire this sort of situation with a dancer. My current ATF is a dancer at Bogart's who I see 100% exclusively now. No other dancers anywhere else. She gets 100% of my Club spent $$$. To me this situation represents Safety, a guarantee of performance and ABSOLUTE full return on my Dollars spent! Also this dancer & I have become pretty good friends, so her VIP performance of Extras is TOTALLY top notch & done with great enthusiasm. I end up leaving completely "drained" and smiling from ear to ear.
Those patrons I mentioned who seemed to find my kind of situation boring apparently see VARIETY as the SPICE of Life!!! The thrill of the chase & the unknown. To each his own. To me trying out unknown dancers equals an unknown safety factor (Especially in a new & unknown Club), NO guarantee of performance & a possible low return on investment!
The Spice of Life?
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For me, having an ATF is the new thing. In the 30 some odd years since I discovered through personal experience that some women will take their clothes off, and even have sex, for money, they've all been "hey that was good, maybe we'll do it again some time". This one is "hey that was great, when we gonna do it again?"
I've been expecting it to crash and burn almost since we started, but so far, we've both held out.
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I very much prefer an ATF. She won't get to be an ATF unless we really do have things in common or she's on a par with A list actresses in acting ability. In any case, I really don't like shopping around. With that said, I did "fire" an ATF who wouldn't put out anymore.
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redheads.
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Alucard is a bitch. I filled up his basement with da shitz truck dumpa load
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I’m fickle and easily distracted when it comes to women in general. I can find a new exciting model, detect a tiny nit, and then think about it too much and talk myself right out of that girl in a few days. Bad breath, poor sexual technique, or a shitty comment can be an instant and permanent turn off. This applies to an even greater extent with sex workers. Throw in the tendency of dancers to disappear and I never end up keeping a fave too long. Though there are a few classics I’d like to bring back…
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Being just a damn dirty ape, I am affected by en.wikipedia.org . But my impulses to be a hoe are reigned in by practicality. There's not even a dubiously reliable review site for dancers, like TER for escorts. Dancers have much less incentive to not be scammy if you're not a prospective regular. Probably the ideal situation is to have at least three dancers who you find very hot, and who think of you as among their better regulars. They don't get too financially dependent on you. You don't get too fixated on any one of them. And it you get to feel like at least a small-time hoe.
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