The beginning of the end
georgmicrodong
Though, I can hope not, I guess.
One night about a month ago, after my CF/ATF were done, she shyly announced that she'd been seeing a guy for about a month. It was a guy she'd known from the neighborhood for a year or so. She'd hung with him a few times, and talked about him as someone she could be interested in, and he'd finally asked her out. They haven't actually had sex yet, but they've been making out kind of heavy. So, I kind of sighed and told her that it was bound to happen sooner or later.
"But," I warned her, "*you* are the one who's going to have call this thing off. I'm not going to be Mr. Noble and just step out of the way. I'll leave you alone if you tell me too, but only if you do." Basically what I'd been telling her all along if something like this should happen.
So, now I get to see if she answers the phone anymore. :/
One night about a month ago, after my CF/ATF were done, she shyly announced that she'd been seeing a guy for about a month. It was a guy she'd known from the neighborhood for a year or so. She'd hung with him a few times, and talked about him as someone she could be interested in, and he'd finally asked her out. They haven't actually had sex yet, but they've been making out kind of heavy. So, I kind of sighed and told her that it was bound to happen sooner or later.
"But," I warned her, "*you* are the one who's going to have call this thing off. I'm not going to be Mr. Noble and just step out of the way. I'll leave you alone if you tell me too, but only if you do." Basically what I'd been telling her all along if something like this should happen.
So, now I get to see if she answers the phone anymore. :/
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last commentSo don't worry too much. If she retires there are always new girls looking for long term temporary relationships.
Been there. When my long time ATF got an a new BF she told me "he" didn't want us talking/texting anymore.
That was 18 months ago. She texted me yesterday. Wants to see me again.
Fuck her. Fuck her.
GMD. it's going to be a tough either way
I don't need to fall at your feet
Just 'cause you cut me to the bone
And I won't miss the way that you kiss me
We were never carved in stone
If I don't listen to the talk of the town
Then maybe I can fool myself..
I'll get over you.. I know I will
I'll pretend my ship's not sinking
And I'll tell myself I'm over you
'cause I'm the king of wishful thinking
I am the king of wishful thinking
At least you got a heads up. I would think most of these girls would cease any contact and either quit or move to another club, although I'm not sure which is worse. I have a feeling you will survive and prosper.
I'm not sure what I'll do if she comes back again. She doesn't exactly have a stellar track record in relationships. But when you get attached to someone, even if it is "just about sex," it can be hard to be pulled in all kinds of emotional directions.
Yeah, the nerve of this girls, trying to have real relationships...sheesh!
Obviously a Canadian.