Tales of the Lonely?
<span style="font-size: larger"><i><b><span style="font-family: Arial">I'm constantly amused to various degrees by the complaints & disdainful comments of male patrons who are not approached by a dancer during their visit to a Club. It is a game gentleman. And dancers don't always have to play by "your rules". I learned many years ago that if a dancer I wanted Laps from didn't approach me, that I needed to approach her & ask. It has worked well for me over the years and it doesn't impinge on my Manhood to ask for laps from a dancer I want to be with. Gentleman go to the Mountain if it won't cum to YOU!</span></b></i></span>
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My old club made ALL the dancers get out on the floor to ask every guy in the place for dances during the 2-4-1 specials (which seemingly ran ever 15 minutes). You could easily get asked by half a dozen girls or more each time. My new club is on the opposite extreme, very low key, more of a neighborhood bar with strippers. Little to no dance hustle. Took a little getting used to at first, but now I prefer being the the one who asks and not having to constantly turn down girls I'm not interested in. Easy enough to stage tip and make your interest known. Plus now I have several girls that I just need to catch their eye, smile, do the head tilt towards the back room, and we're off. <br type="_moz" />
problem is there are alot of danceres that i have no intrest in that approach me wanting a drink or selling dances. <br />
i can only recall one time that a dancer that caught my eye basically ignored me so i went up to the stage and as i tipped her i said come talk to me and i might buy some dances from you. she did, i did and she became my favorite for a few months. she only danced 1 or 2 night a week and i would see her and her only weekly until it eventually fizzled out between us.
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And when I say "nice suit" many of these girls can tell the difference, so I would invest in something in the 6-800 range. I wear Brooks Brothers for work, so my game is generally covered. Trust me when I say that, over time, the suit, along with some BS cover job if your job is not very good, will SAVE YOU MONEY. Most of my OTC offers come from girls that I have never had a lapdance with! <br />
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Let's say that, in your once a month outing, you have $400 that you can blow. If you are suited up and are in the right geography, you can be having the right conversation after spending only $60 or so on drinks and tips. Add 200-250 to the tab for the girl OTC and you are WELL within budget.<br />
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If you only go out a few times a month then one suit, nice shirt and tie will do. IME it is quite a worthwhile investment.<br />
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I spend $$$ and the dancers cum around eventually. LOL
The change in dress occurred after my change in my objective from Lap Dances only to Xtras ONLY!!