I had a girl who danced for me in a club. After a great dance, we agreed to meet outside the club for a great dinner, gambling, etc. experience. A few weeks later we did a repeat performance. I liva about 6 hours away. She texted me daily, when are you coming back etc. Got sort of hostile about me being mean in texting her and I text in about 20 letter texts lol. She left for about a week basically figured I would not hear from her again. When she got back it was all I want to see you so back when are you coming back. When she hits me up to see if I can 'help her out with a car loan' - when I hesitate don't even say know she goes crazy calls me a psycho and plenty of other words, tells me she is gonna make sure I can't get into the club again, etc. This girls needs serious help. She smoked pot and quick just before I met her and I'm sure is back onto it heavily again. Great girl but not worth the problems. Any suggestions or similar experiences.
I've never had either a dancer or an escort turn psycho on me but I tend to be attracted to fairly down-to-earth ladies. I've had a few dancers get too clingy or posessive after an OTC experience but the simple solution there is not to do it again with that dancer.
Yeah casual guy staying away isnt an issue, I only get to hit the club about once every 3 months normally. My twice in a month was an unusual event. However I would like to hit the club again but dont want to stir up trouble. She actually accused me of stalking her, interesting since I am 6 hours away lol I blame Bones he introduced her to me in the first place. I think I'll just cross that club off my list, it's dying for lack of customers anyway and with the drama I experienced last time I was there I can live without it.
If the psycho girl asked about works in a club you don't mind being absent from for 2 to 4 weeks, it might be a good idea. I can't imagine routinely visiting someone who works 3 or 6 hours away in the first place. However I know of one stripper who was doing that.
I often encountered some kind of drama event with many of the strippers I saw outside of the club at one time or another. One stripper got mad at me one time because she actually thought I would buy her something for no particular reason at all. I had no idea where she got that idea from. She was really ticked and even quit that club for 2 or 3 months so I didn't see or talk to her until she returned.
Same particular dancer got slightly mad at me another time (can't remember what reason it was that time) and threatened to call or stop by and tell my parents, friends, coworkers etc that we were friends and she was a stripper. I don't know if I laughed but she got the message and didn't bother.
Another dancer who I had slept with got upset at me talking to another dancer for apparently too long while in the strip club. Another little drama event.
That was susposed to be smoked and quit for 2 weeks just before I met her. She started back the day of our 1st OTC experience. Abbie is right OTC the club is a bad idea stick with the pros - you might not get that girl friend or conquest feeling but once they are gone they are gone.
And people wonder why I think OTC is usually a mistake. I think Chandler has it right, absence makes the heart grow fonder...of someone else, although getting a new cell number could help too.
Yes! Just the sweetest girl that you'd ever want to meet with a young tight body. Turns out she was bi-polar and she got off her meds and vowed to show up at work and embarrass me in front of boss and co-workers and confront my (then, at the time) wife etc. All because I wouldnt "loan" her $400 to help her leave town.
Golfer, if she and her club are six hours away, I think that's the solution to your problem. Keep your distance. How much contact info does she have on you other than whatever allows her to text message you? Also, what does "smoked pot and quick" mean? Pot and crack? Cause pot alone doesn't account for the psycho shit.
No, I've never had a stripper do anything close to that to me. Just regular women many years ago. All you can do is stay away as much as possible, and hope her madness plays itself out.
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Same particular dancer got slightly mad at me another time (can't remember what reason it was that time) and threatened to call or stop by and tell my parents, friends, coworkers etc that we were friends and she was a stripper. I don't know if I laughed but she got the message and didn't bother.
Another dancer who I had slept with got upset at me talking to another dancer for apparently too long while in the strip club. Another little drama event.
No, I've never had a stripper do anything close to that to me. Just regular women many years ago. All you can do is stay away as much as possible, and hope her madness plays itself out.