Recommendations for books (fiction, non-fiction, some mish-mash in between) about The Hobby. Strip clubs, prostitution, men who like girls and spend time having affairs outside of the usual romantic marriage-directed courtship a la Jane Austen. I invite your contributions to the list! My knowledge is limited to "classics," but I'd welcome more recent works, especially fiction that might somehow get at our actual experiences and help us understand them.
Vladimir Nabokov, Lolita. Mostly a send-up of a pathetic ageing academic, but not without its horny charms. Has to be first on any Hobby Lit syllabus!
Carl Hiaasen, Striptease. Not too different from the movie. I think Hiaasen just channels Burt Reynolds every time he writes about an ol' cracker pol'. I thought it was too crazy in the wrap-up, too determined to be off-kilter.
Stephen Vizinczey, In Praise of Older Women. An awesome read, and very different from the softcore-porn movie made out of it. Much more a classic Bildungsroman than a story of sexual escapades, the books provides a social critique of various "sexual climates" across the West, from former Iron Curtain East Europe to Canada.
Milan Kundera, Laughable Loves. Milan Kundera, The Unbearable Lightness of Being. The first is a wonderful set of interconnected short stories and plotless musings about young adults (or old adults who are young at heart) "hooking up" in a variety of ways, from sweet romance to total kink. The latter (not very much like the movie, but Juliette Binoche is always worth looking at!) tells of ... well ... what the title says, and more.
Gabriel Garcia Marquez. Memories of My Melancholy Whores (Spanish title, Memoria de Mis Putas Tristes, is probably more accurately rendered as, In Memory of My Sad Fucks). A magical-realist fantasy about an old man and a young (too young!) prostitute. He only ever meets her when she's exhausted from her sweat-shop duties and napping, but he fears to wake her so he extends his regular weekly meetings, furnishes her flat and has imaginary interactions with her, all of which have strange magical bearing on his real life.
Daniel Defoe, Moll Flanders. The fortunes and misfortunes of a decidedly liberated Enlightenment-era whore, and how she made, lost, regained, lost again, made again her fortune, and eventually ended up in America (where she belongs!).
Your thoughts?


To me, what was missing from the movie "Striptease" was more, the smarmy slutty skanky REALness of a strip club. Demi and her "stunt tits" (LOL) put on stunt performances. She had a "stage show" worthy of a feature dancer -- something that always bores and annoys me -- with choreographed flashy broadway-style movements. That much made it clear, this was a Hollywood movie, not a strip club. The lap dance in "Showgirls" is just as pointless.