Off Topic: Didn't know you had to dress up to get atterntion from women
Thursday, July 27, 2006 6:12 AM
This topic isn't stripclub related but I am pissed off about it. Okay My supervisor and a coworker of mine set out to take a poll of some of the women(younger women) who work at my job on what they would rate me on a scale of 1 to 10.
My Boss and my coworker think that I am TOO picky when it comes to dating women, so they wanted to know what the women at work thought of me. Even though I am not a hearthrob, I know I am not an ugly person but in this survey I might as well have been. Some of the women seemed to think that I dressed like a older guy in his 40's( just tured 33). I don't dress up when I am work. I use to wear my nice clothes to work, only to end up later tearing a hole in my nice pants or scuffing up my new shoes. SInce then I started dressing more conservative but according to these women(Young black women) I dress like a old man and therefore most rated me low. A few of them gave me a 5 or 6 but that was because they thought I had a nice personality.
Should I be pissed at my boss and coworker for going around and asking people this? They said they did it in hopes that it would help me know what areas I am weak at when dealing with women. I am going to say something that might be somewhat offensive but alot of young BLACK women like for their "man" to dress up. I don't feel like I have to dress up to get a woman. This is one reason that I to some extent don't like black women. I just think to some extent the younger black women are caught up in materialistic ideas. Maybe I should just start dating other races who don't get caught into silly stuff like the way a person dresses.
I know some of you don't care, but I just wanted to get some of your thoughts because I am really pissed off about it, but I didn't let them know.
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