Do you like dancers double teaming up on you?
sharkhunter
One dancer likes to sit, talk, get me to buy her drinks and then pay her money to dance. I'm ok with that since she is hot. Well as long as the amount she tries to get out of me isn't too much. She even claims she lives just a short distance away from me. But then she keeps inviting other dancers over and wants me to buy dances from them too. Would this bother you? I wasn't at all interested in getting any dances from the one dancer she had sitting at our table last time. It seemed a bit awkward because I did not want any dances from the other dancer but the dancer I was sitting with invited her over. Somehow she sensed my lack of interest and excused herself. I probably said I wasn't interested in buying any dances from her. I guess it is that easy.
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Best thing that you can do in this situation is to flush the dancer that is doing this to you and to start fresh.
Me being the nice guy, I bought a double-dance with two of them, and kept challenging myself to take my eyes off my ATF and watch the other girl on occasion. I then hustled both off without spending my usual 20 minutes chatting with my ATF and then buying a few dances - bummer.
I don't have a good answer, other than maybe to sharkhunter's last point - just to say if it's alright with her, you'd just as soon spend your time as a couple. I'm sure the other girl would get the hint.
Sometimes I'll sit with a dancer and another dancer decides to come over. Typically the dancer I'm with knows her, but she didn't invite her over (unless they pre-arranged it in the locker room). When that happens, I do like sharkhunter and focus all of my attention on the one I'm interested in and sort of pretend like the other isn't even there. But if the subject of doubles comes up, I let it known i'm a one-on-one guy
Other times at other clubs, it's been an obvious attempt to separate me from my money with as little effort as possible.
Someday, maybe the right combination of girls, price and action will come along and I'll go for it, but until then, I've only got one dick, and not much of that one. More than one girl is likely a waste of my money.
Granted, much of those times, the first dancer is a fave who knows my tastes. Usually, she's just trying to throw a frickin' bone to another dancer who's having a lousy night. It's understood that I'll get a dance or two from dancer #2, and then she is to shove off, so I can spend a lot more money on dancer #1.
And then there's C, who is very bi. If the #2 dancer doesn't appeal to me, I'll buy a dance from her, anyway, *if* she'll do the dance for C.