Do you feel guilty when you turn down a dance
Lewis1975
Texas
I do. I know how bad rejection feels, and those girls are putting their naked selves out there for you. It's got to be tough to hear the "no thanks" from us customers.
Am I a soft-hearted guy? Yep. I wish I could buy a dance or two from every dancer that asks me. I would if I could.
Am I a soft-hearted guy? Yep. I wish I could buy a dance or two from every dancer that asks me. I would if I could.
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Do you feel bad for Mercedes when you decide to buy a Jag instead? Never! If it was something I was going to feel bad about, it's because I thought I was missing a potentially very good experience, and then I would just buy the dance.
Look at it this way, when a cereal box at the grocery store is dented, it's marked down. Some clubs/strippers should think about "red label specials." Is a 50/60ish old wrinkled stripper worth 20 bucks a song ? How about some porker with acne who reeks of tuna ? How about my favorite trio of strippers-Tweaker, Shamu, and Ratso ?
Not in my book.
sometimes I admit I used to get a soft heart if a gal was sitting with me and having a stimulating conversation but was too low mileage or ugly for me.
The problem is, when you turn one of them down, they think you're not interested in dances AT ALL. Word gets around, then all the girls avoid you.
So I'm back to "maybe later"...
I feel bad for the shy girls sometimes too, but geez, if they can't take that in this business...
Anyway, I've bought a few sympathy dances. All of them sucked but one, which turned out to be pretty good!
Me: "Not right now, but maybe later."
She: "Yeah, I bet. You just don't wanna dance with me!"
Me: "no, really...check back with me after while".
Me: (thinking)"like maybe next month."
I usually don't get dances from girls who are bigger than I am, but who knows, I might get very drunk and change my policy on that.
If I'm not going to be dancing that night, I will say that right up front with all comers, otherwise, I believe that all doors should be left ajar.