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Clash of the ATFs

spudd

Florida

I met Old ATF around right before Summer of this year. She does a good BBBJ every time I see her, for just the normal $30/song, without expecting much extra tip. However, Old ATF lives far from the club, and she has sort of a drink problem (don't they all?). Also, our interactions are only ITC, she wouldn't give me her number.

Three months ago, Old ATF disappeared from the club. That's when I met New ATF. New ATF does the same like the Old ATF, with the same price. New ATF is like the mother hen of the club. She knows everything and anything about the dancers (or so she says). Every now and then, she kept me updated on Old ATF, saying she works at this and that club.

Even though New ATF gave me her number, we doesn't always respond to text. We talked about OTC, but when I text to ask the next day, she would simply ignore me. When we talk again, she always have some family issues (or excuses). That's fine with me, as long as the ITC activities were good.

New ATF and I were getting close these past few weeks. Last week, we even talked about spending XMAS Eve together, depending on if she has her kid with her or not. We even advanced our relationship to beyond BBBJ. During this time, she told me that Old ATF has been back to the club, but she's never there when I visited.

Once again, I inquired about the OTC on Xmas eve, but she reply back her kid is sick. So on the day before I wanted to see her ITC, I texted her, making sure she'll be working that day. When I got there, Old ATF was there. New ATF wasn't to be found for the 1st hour I was there. So Old ATF and I sat together and reminisce. She told me that she was in jail and house arrest, for getting her 3rd DUI.

Finally New ATF showed up, and all three of us sat together, joking and drinking. New ATF said she was late because she just had some dental work being done, and she still has some pain. She was called up for the stage dance.

After New ATF was done, Old ATF and I decide to "reminisce" some more with lapdances. As we were walking, New ATF confronted me, getting all angry. I told New ATF that I would see her after I'm done with Old ATF. New ATF said that she's leaving. I even asked her if she would be working later this week, but she said no.

After done with Old ATF, I texted New ATF. She said that she went through great pain just to come to work to see me, and this is how I treated her? I told her that she kept talking about Old ATF, giving me updates and such, that I thought she wanted me to see Old ATF. I didn't get a reply.

So my question, should I pursue New ATF again? Will she be mad forever?

(Part of me wants to get rid of the whole thing, since I've been spending too much $$ on these girls.)