Is a good dancer hard to find?

well if you're not real picky i guess any dancer will do at times, but you seem like a picky guy that has standards as i do too so finding a dancer that makes everything click is indeed like looking for a needle in a haystack.

You realize of course that the ones that are not your type are very likely somebody else's type or they wouldn't be still working in the club.

And I think that even extends a little to 'bad attitude, low mileage, etc.' After all what you regard as bad attitude might be just the thing to somebody with a bit of a masochistic bent or what you regard as softly sensual might be too passive to somebody else. It even applies to 'mileage'. I've had girls that went farther than others but came across as a little to skanky and pushy in the process.

In this economy you should be able to find plenty of multi talented strippers.

I always felt that the hunt is half the fun...

I'm staying home another weekend, starting a new trend it seems. I'm not interested in going out. I suppose if a club has lots of dancers you have to sort through them. If there are only one or two good dancers and club business falls off because former regulars and others decided to just stay home, dancers may not even go in to work that night. They may call and hear it's dead and that their regulars aren't even there. In that case, it may be hard to find a good dancer.

I just try not to be too picky and it works out all right in the end. Just because some dancer may be a little too wrong in a certain area is no reason to not like her. At my favorite club, most of my faves over the years had one obvious defect, which was usually a weight problem, but some were also probably too old to be dancing, but they were fun to hang out with. I think I had two faves over time there who were neither at least mildly overweight or old, and they had their own problems. One was low mileage (in part because she's the owner's girlfriend), but she was fun to talk to all the time and presumably still is. The other was awkward to talk to and tended to talk about her kids too much, but she let me go down on her all the time. One what if scenario I wonder about is if my last ATF had danced at my favorite club, would she have been my ATF? While she is better looking than 90% of the ladies who ever danced at my favorite club, she doesn't seem like the type to go far mileage-wise for that club, although she went as far as she can go at the club she danced at.

Come to South Florida, there are plenty of eager ones down here willing to make you happy. Some are finer than others, some are ROB's. Sometimes ya take a hit, other's are a lot of fun.

Come to South Florida, there are plenty of eager ones down here willing to make you happy. Some are finer than others, some are ROB's. Sometimes ya take a hit, other's are a lot of fun.

I'm very picky, but I have had pretty good luck finding good dancers to play with, for the most part.

My biggest problem is losing them before communication channels are established. I've found a few dancers that could easily have risen to ATF status, but after the first encounter I have never seen them again. That is totally frustrating.

One recent dancer might have given me THE best dances that I've ever had... between her talented hands, perfect style, beautiful face and sex facial expressions, she kept things hard all night (thought I might have to go to the ER for the 4+ hour erection! [wink]) I've been back at least six times since, and she's not been there. No one knows where she went... or when she will be back.

Fortunately, while making visits to the MIA blonde goddess, I have established two curr favs (one day shift, one night shift) so I can't complain too much.

The perfect combination that makes a favorite can be elusive. Sometimes I need to spend time with two dancers, one for conversation (with so-so dances) and another for hot dances (but no personality to speak of), to get the whole experience I'm seeking.

Depends on the definition of "good dancer". For me, it's one that let's me bust a nut in her mouth. Those aren't particular hard to find.

I am talking about favorites. You know, the dancer for whom you visit a club specifically to see.

In any club it just takes patience. You need to spend time observing the dancers. After a while, you should be able to pick out the beteer dancers/providers.

Dt,

I have a couple of favorites as you mention just above, but for my ATF, I don't think she will ever be replaced. And yes, I too, think it difficult to find those favorites.

Finding an ATF sounds like trying to find a girlfriend. You date lots of them but only once in awhile do you find one you want to hold onto. I don't get out enough to find ATFs any more *sigh*