Agressiveness

as long as she is not getting aggressive about wanting to get into my wallet, I am fine with it

Back in the 1980's and early 90's, when all you got was air dances, on a handful of occasions, dancers got grabby with me. I resented it back then because the ones who got grabby were twice my age and it's a turnoff for me to do someone much older.

I do like when a dancer or lover tells me "I like this" or "do this" in the context of sex. My second GF taught me all kinds of things that way, and better communication makes for better sex.

My ex GF gave me that treatment a lot and I didn't mind one bit. She's shy in every other way so it's interesting that she's so sexually aggressive.

george:

I LIVE IN WESTERN CANADA!!!! Of course I don't get it often enough in SCs out here. And, of course, I would happily accept this "type of thing".

You are a cruel man. When you die you will burn forever in the fires of hell that exist in the SCs of Alberta and Vancouver.

I hate you with a passion that burns more fiercely than our sun that rises so reliably each morning in the East.

Stop torturing me with your salacious posts and I may be more polite in my responses to you.

Art, would it make you feel better if I admitted that my ATF isn't really all that good at giving head? She doesn't go down far enough, and she bounces up and down too fast. I like it slow and deep. It's really annoying.

GMD has me thinking about another visit to The Penthouse in Detroit.

i like a semi agressive chick sometimes to get things started but i still want to control the overall situation and how it ends. ;)

I just need a bj. *sigh*

GMD... I've only had one girl approach me aggessively like that. It was the second time that we OTCed. I was in town for business and we had a standing "date" for everynight that week, so the first night I didn't want to pressure her and maybe screw my chances (err... poor choice of words), so we dank her Goldschlagger and she danced on me a little, we kissed a lot, but that was it.

On the second night, we picked up where we left off the night before. Again, I wasn't pressuring, and admittedly I can be too much of a gentleman sometimes, but we were having fun and there were promises of things getting better. At one point she went into the bathroom and I moved over to the bed. When she came out, she walked over to the bed and said "Okay bitch take your clothes off!" (yeah, she tended to talk ghetto-ish) I quickly obliged and she proceeded with probably THE best BJ I have EVER had - to this day. She definitely liked to be in control.

Aggressive sex by strippers can be a good thing. Aggressive strippers looking for lap dances is a whole different story.