Dancers Offering Their Numbers/E-mails...
jack_s
Florida
I've been a club-goer for years, but in the past 1-2 years, I've noticed something that hasn't happened to me before. After getting privates/VIPs/laps/call-em-whatever, I've been finding that dancers have been offering to give me their phone numbers or e-mails.
This isn't *all* dancers, of course. But, it's been quite a few of them. I'd say that half the girls I've gotten repeat dances from, after multiple visits, have asked me, "Would you like my number?"
I assume this is an invitation for an OOC encounter. As I'm married, and like SCs really as just a diversion-- and a source of inspiration, I've always given a polite, "Oh, that's so sweet-- thank you, but I like to keep things here in the club." And they've always responded politely. No-one's seemed offended.
Still, I'm kind of weirded out that I've been having this happen with relative frequency in the past two years, as I've *NEVER* had it happen so often before.
Is this just the state of the economy, that a lot more dancers feel the need to go to OOC stuff?
Is it that, now that I'm in my 40s, I look financially secure, and the dancers assume I can afford them?
Or is it just that I've become so devilishly handsome with my graying hair, and my middle-age belly. )
This isn't *all* dancers, of course. But, it's been quite a few of them. I'd say that half the girls I've gotten repeat dances from, after multiple visits, have asked me, "Would you like my number?"
I assume this is an invitation for an OOC encounter. As I'm married, and like SCs really as just a diversion-- and a source of inspiration, I've always given a polite, "Oh, that's so sweet-- thank you, but I like to keep things here in the club." And they've always responded politely. No-one's seemed offended.
Still, I'm kind of weirded out that I've been having this happen with relative frequency in the past two years, as I've *NEVER* had it happen so often before.
Is this just the state of the economy, that a lot more dancers feel the need to go to OOC stuff?
Is it that, now that I'm in my 40s, I look financially secure, and the dancers assume I can afford them?
Or is it just that I've become so devilishly handsome with my graying hair, and my middle-age belly. )
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I'm afraid it's not only because of your lookings. It's indeed about the state of the economy. A girl I know, prof-dancer in a stripclub, does the same. She use the club to "filter out" the steady, trustable guests for a "special treat" (out of the club where prostitution is not allowed). In this way she has two profits; she "knows" her clients and the cash will end for the full 100% in her own wallet instead of the 50-50, 60-40, 70-30 rule (or sometimes even less!).
It wouldn't be my thing to do, because I like the save envirement of a club, but I'm sure financially it's O.K..
I hope I didn't disapointed you, but money will be the reason. Even if your name is Richard Gere ;-)
XXX Manuela
I have been offered phone numbers or email addresses for OTC fun in every Alberta club I have visited, easily as frequently as happens when I visit Detroit or Toronto. And, Alberta clubs are definitely NOT as "handsy" or dick friendly as the clubs I like in the east. I am a spender, though, and I also tip the wait staff generously to get them on my side.
The club I frequent most often in Alberta has a weekly change in the dancer roster and employs no house dancers. However, one of the waitresses knows my preferences and knows her bra will be stuffed with blues ($5 bills in Canada) during my visit. A successful hook-up garners her a green ($20) as a "thank you" tip. Who knows what she tells the dancers in the dressing room?
I have nothing but my bucks going for me in this game. I am old, fat, and ugly. I am new to the SC hobby but my experience is that dancers everywhere are eager to latch on to a free spending customer for OTC engagements if that is on their personal menu of services offered.
I agree 1000% with Manuela
I no longer feel special. But I'll keep going back for the dances.
manuela: Thank you for pictures and posts. I've figured out your height/weight in USA measures, could you please translate bra size (85) into USA terms ?
I am really really hurt that you doubt the purity of my motives. Manuela is obviously European. I was just trying to find a language that she may be more familiar with to introduce her to the intricacies of tuscl. I really think she should be warned about you sharks that inhabit this site. And who better than a kindly, gentle, harmless old soul than farmerart?
try spanish.
Et oui; un peux . . .