I've been a club-goer for years, but in the past 1-2 years, I've noticed something that hasn't happened to me before. After getting privates/VIPs/laps/call-em-whatever, I've been finding that dancers have been offering to give me their phone numbers or e-mails.
This isn't all dancers, of course. But, it's been quite a few of them. I'd say that half the girls I've gotten repeat dances from, after multiple visits, have asked me, "Would you like my number?"
I assume this is an invitation for an OOC encounter. As I'm married, and like SCs really as just a diversion-- and a source of inspiration, I've always given a polite, "Oh, that's so sweet-- thank you, but I like to keep things here in the club." And they've always responded politely. No-one's seemed offended.
Still, I'm kind of weirded out that I've been having this happen with relative frequency in the past two years, as I've NEVER had it happen so often before.
Is this just the state of the economy, that a lot more dancers feel the need to go to OOC stuff?
Is it that, now that I'm in my 40s, I look financially secure, and the dancers assume I can afford them?
Or is it just that I've become so devilishly handsome with my graying hair, and my middle-age belly. )


Dear Jack, I'm afraid it's not only because of your lookings. It's indeed about the state of the economy. A girl I know, prof-dancer in a stripclub, does the same. She use the club to "filter out" the steady, trustable guests for a "special treat" (out of the club where prostitution is not allowed). In this way she has two profits; she "knows" her clients and the cash will end for the full 100% in her own wallet instead of the 50-50, 60-40, 70-30 rule (or sometimes even less!). It wouldn't be my thing to do, because I like the save envirement of a club, but I'm sure financially it's O.K.. I hope I didn't disapointed you, but money will be the reason. Even if your name is Richard Gere ;-) XXX Manuela