Did I Miss A Memo?
VoodooMan
A little here, a little there
I started clubbing over 20 years ago, and went solidly up until about 8 years ago. I took a few years off but about 3 years ago started frequenting again. And I noticed a major change. I've been in clubs all over the US. In the '80's and '90's it seemed to be always the same. On a typical dance you might get a nipple brushed across the face occassionally, but everything was pretty much just a spectator sport. And I'm only speaking of the mainstream, topless clubs here. Of course there was always more fun to be had at the lesser-known underground clubs.
I quit regular clubbing for a couple years, and since returning, it seems that in every club, the expected behavior is touching is now allowed, if not encouraged. Again, some more than others, but now if you aren't sure, hands are usually placed there by the dancer. And this isn't just at local clubs, but clubs all over. Maybe some of you haven't noticed because the "change" happened over a period of time. But having stopped and then returned, it's still quite a nice change for me.
This may only pertain to those who've been clubbing for many years, but have you also noticed this? Do you think it's because the industry has become a lot more mainstream, and the occupation a little more accepted? Just curious as to your thoughts. (And please understand that this is NOT a complaint of any kind! It's a celebration!)
I quit regular clubbing for a couple years, and since returning, it seems that in every club, the expected behavior is touching is now allowed, if not encouraged. Again, some more than others, but now if you aren't sure, hands are usually placed there by the dancer. And this isn't just at local clubs, but clubs all over. Maybe some of you haven't noticed because the "change" happened over a period of time. But having stopped and then returned, it's still quite a nice change for me.
This may only pertain to those who've been clubbing for many years, but have you also noticed this? Do you think it's because the industry has become a lot more mainstream, and the occupation a little more accepted? Just curious as to your thoughts. (And please understand that this is NOT a complaint of any kind! It's a celebration!)
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Now, how many of us think they personally helped instigate the change? Hmmm.
But definitely:
- more girls chasing fewer customers
- facing a shrinking market clubs lower restrictions
- and of course the Internet has changed everything.
What's interesting is the range of creativity as businesses and individuals address all this. For example, the drink hustle, placing on of hands (sounds so evangelical), private rooms, VIPs, ITC, OTC.
The mileage is definitely better, but the girls are sexier too. Lets face it, only special girls are strippers. They like to feel sexy, they love to flirt and have guys flirt with them. They like to have fun, and make loads of money doing it. Sometimes they even like to have sex if they find the "right" guy.
So yea, a lot has changed, but then there have always been girls like this from the beginning. Strip clubs just brought them all together into one place. Aren't we lucky?