you know whats funny...
forgive me and I mean no direct insult, but actually, both the "assholes" that you refer to and the actual statement that you followed thanking them with, I think you are both outta line. They may be insulting the dancers, but you are sitting in your chair capitalizing off of their mistakes thinking that because you have tipped that should buy you the right to conduct yourself in a more intimate manner. roaming tongues and and hands, oh please. you sound like you are waiting to "console" entertainers with hurt feelings waiting for them to fall into your predatory arms, and what I mean by that is that you are operating under a sense of false pretense yourself- why not just pay the girl for the fact that you like her style or think shes beautiful, smart, or funny, or... hold on, stop the presses... maybe shes a good entertainer/ performer! Holy shat, the things people come up with! lol
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"Console" them? Not at all, at least not in the "hey baby, did that mean ol' custy call you bad names? It's all right, I'm here now" kind of way. I seldom reference others directly, I just let my obviously enlightened behaviour stand in stark contrast to the jerks and assholes. If my attitude reflects a belief and acknowledgment that she's a person and not an object, and simply treating her as a person tends to reap rewards, then so be it.
My pretenses aren't false; I'm not pretending to be someone I'm not, nor am I offering anything I'm not prepared to give, nor asking for anything for which I'm not prepared to pay. I *am* a nice guy, if not a particularly nice *person*, and being so pays benefits in how *they* treat *me*; benefits the jerks don't see. I'd be a fool not to avail myself of those benefits.
If someone doesn't reciprocate, well, I lose nothing by saying "thanks" even so, and maybe someone else will notice and decide to do so in her place.
You make your review sound like you are a customer but your post on here just sounds like a jaded stripper.
I think some strippers tell guys that they are "great guys and everyone else here is a loser" in order to make the customer feel special and unique, which leads him to buy more dances.
As for going into a strip club and only tipping with $1 bills and only buying 1 or 2 drinks, does not make you a cheapskate. In most cases, it is the lack of quality in the strip club. I have plenty of money and will spend plenty when I find a hot or high mileage girl...but don't expect me to spend a lot if the strip club sucks on that particular night. It seems that mostly the ugly/loser strippers are the ones complaining about "the cheapskates" (ie guys that don't find you attractive enough to spend money on you).
He doesn't sound like he was manipulating anyone - the dancers are all grown up woman that can make decisions concerning their bodies all by themselves - last time I checked no one was holding a gun to any dancer's head and making them do the things that they choose to do.
If it turns out that any dancer is so naive and gullible as to perform certain acts due to consolation, gratitude (or any low self esteem issues) that she wouldn't normally do, she's gonna have way bigger issues down the road if she continues dancing.
I'm with shadow in that this does smell like a bitter dancer post.