Pointless Lies

22 comments

• Dudester

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  14 years ago

  Pretty much the same thing happened to me a couple of times. Like you, I was confused as she didn't gain financially, so, what was her deal? The only answer I can think of is for her to tell tale to her friends, spinning the story. "Some guy was drooling over me and just begging me for sex. He even offered me two thousand, but I'm not a tramp-of course I gave him a false number and stood him up." Like the first season of Star Trek, a computer describing the working of a woman's mind: "What an amazing collection of contradictions."
• gatorfan

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  14 years ago

  Some people lie for the sake of lying.
• samsung1

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  14 years ago

  Yeah she is probably a pathological liar... but I do see how that could generate business for her. She wanted to be your friend to make you feel special and excited...therefore it would be easier for you to say "yes" to getting a private dance from her. Did you end up spending any money on her in the club besides the stage tipping?
• samsung1

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  14 years ago

  dudester, speaking of standing up...I recently was offered OTC but she wanted me to pay half now and then half when I get there so I declined... I have read too many stories on the pink site from strippers bragging about how they rip guys off like this..
• gatorfan

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  14 years ago

  samsung, pay half OTC in advance? Is that something like, LAY-AWAY LOL!
• CTQWERTY

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  14 years ago

  Could be she was honest. Could also be she's picked up and dropped off by someone who purposely tries to prevent her from wandering. Also could be she told a girlfriend on shift about it and the girlfriend talked her out of it. You'd learn a lot more in a couple of additional interactions occurring over subsequent visits.
• CTQWERTY

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  14 years ago

  Sam, you should've replied "I'm like Wall St.: no money down, no credit check, and 100% financing baby! You'll get paid when Uncle Sam bails me out and pays me my bonus for a job well done..."
• minnow

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  14 years ago

  ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ That's a good one, CT. I haven't had OP's case happen to me. Many yrs. ago, at a "btlad" kind of club, a buxomish blonde expressed interest in meeting me OTC at nearby 24 hr. diner. She said, "look for the black Camaro thats parked near the front". I left club just before closing, walked by the Camaro (only 1 in the lot, and in place), and noticed a big black dude sitting in it. The same black dude I saw her speaking to briefly between our "dances", and closing time. Of course, "no show" at diner. I've questioned what exactly her motivation was for this whole setup was- was I supposed to tap on the window, and say "excuse me, I'd be happy to pay a few Benjamins for the privilige of banging this fine lady"??
• uscue13

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  14 years ago

  For some reason, I get this one alot: Me: Hey I haven't seen you here much. Where did you come from? Stripper: Really? I've been working her for 5 years. I normally work the night/day shift. I don't get the point, I obviously frequent the club alot and have never seen you in my life. I understand not wanting to be seen as a newbie (as I believe most of these are), but why not just say you came from a different club (if that is indeed true). Makes no sense to me.
• Mr.White

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  14 years ago

  i had this really sweet,nice,beautiful little black girl a couple months ago.after we had a good talk.i got a couch dance to try her out.was alot of grinding and more,it was [view link] i hit her with the OTC which i normally wouldn't do.i let them bring it up.she says if you get a vip i'll give you half my #.so i'm the fool the vip was weird she would grind a bit then jump up like she was scared with the look of fear.then turn around and shake her ass really fast.she did this over and over.sure enough she gives me half a phone #.i thought she was joking bout the half #.then she says if you get another vip i'll give you the rest of it and you can call me for OTC.what the fuck so since the vip that night where only $75 i did one more but i told her what i wanted in vip.she did better.i got the # and called .she answered my call so i'm thinking "cool".i told her when i could do a OTC we set it up she lied it up good and she is a no show.i told her what motel but not the room #.sat there all night waiting .she said yes i'll be there. i figure she went with someone with more money.saw her twice at the club after and said i won't be spending $ on you now sorry.whatever she was a total bitch after that.(how... your lucky they didn't rob you)
• arbeeguy

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  14 years ago

  Well this whole thread just reinforces my opinion that OTC sucks. I'm sure guys with more nerve and brains than I have can make OTC a fun experience. To me it just seems to open up ALL KINDS of opportunities for lying, robbing, possibly even getting beaten up by the thug partner of the stripper-whore. I get all the risk I can tolerate ITC. Yes, some girls just like to lie for the fun of it. Not all, but enough to get strippers a bad rep. HEY SAMSUNG1 -- how bout giving us a few choice quotes from PINK SITE some time. You are always giving great news releases. Just want you to know your efforts are appreciated, SAMSUNG1. Well OK, signing of, I got off topic again. Phooey.
• potheadpl

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  14 years ago

  uscue13---That's just kinda weird. I know I'm much more likely to spend time with a newbie. I like em young. I really like feeling like I'm corrupting her, too. LOL!
• how

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  14 years ago

  samsung1, yes, I got a few dances from her. Not bad, although I only got to 3rd base. But she did not benefit from her lie, nor could she have reasonably expected to...
• steve229

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  14 years ago

  Would I lie to you? Would I lie to you honey? Now would I say something that wasn't true? I'm asking you sugar, would I lie to you?
• CTQWERTY

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  14 years ago

  Thank you, Minnow. I was thinking of Goldman Sachs... $23 billion in bonus money awarded for 2009 after managing to out do every welfare mom derided for generations in 2008 alone.
• Player11

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  14 years ago

  Otc does not suck. I get the room and text the girl the room #. She will show if she is going to get any money. I don't do advances, loans, or handouts. If she wants my money, she will fuck, otherwise no money. The one I have been seeing for 2 years is so prompt that as soon as I get the room she is either already parked waiting for me or there is a knock on the door before I barely have time to get in the room.
• Player11

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  14 years ago

  I agree with the op that gal was telling a pointless lie. A nonworking number and oddball time is a telltale sign. I have had them tell me similar lies in a club, just part of SS. After awhile of going to SC's I just simply screened it out or ignored it.
• gatorfan

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  14 years ago

  OTC better include sucking plus alot else
• SuperDude

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  14 years ago

  After a tortured 20 year marriage ended with me in financial, professional and emotional wreckage I came to understand that my ex lied--a lot--because the tales she told made her the center of the phony universe she created for herself. Some women are like that. They have a view of how important they should be, then they spin lies and rip-offs to put themselves in the center of attention. Are some dancers willing to say and do almost anything to feel important and the center of attention? Yep!
• lopaw

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  14 years ago

  Dang it Steve! Now I've got that song stuck in my head!
• vincemichaels

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  14 years ago

  LOL, lopaw some songs are like that, it could be worse. Getting back to the topic, yeah we've all heard these pointless lies and wonder what her problem is, oh well, there's always another dancer.
• MisterGuy

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  14 years ago

  "I recently was offered OTC but she wanted me to pay half now and then half when I get there so I declined" LOL...this was one of my favorite rip-offs to hear about when I used to frequent a strip club in northern NY state. There were several dancers there that would do this to literally guy after guy (usually ones that were from out of town). It was an easy hundred bucks or so each time.