Ever been to a club where the 1st time and 2nd time were total opposites of each other? I've had this happen at 2 clubs -- both times the first visit was a dud, but for some reason, I decided to give the club one more shot.
The first club that this happened at, my second visit included meeting the girl that is now my ATF.
The second club that this happened at, my second visit included meeting two great girls -- friends no less -- the 3 of us hung out for quite a long time. I could see either of them becoming ATFs if the crown wasn't already taken.
If I ever visit another club and it's a dud the first time, I'm never going back. I can't afford to meet three great girls! ;-)


LeeH- I have been to several places like that, only it sets up so that the first visit was great and the second was a total dud. That situation is even worse than your situation. You don't know if it normally sucks, but you happen to catch it on a lucky day, or if the opposite is true, although generally, it's somewhere in between. In my experience, however, 90% of the places I've been to more than once are either great both times or they suck both times.