Dancers asking for "Pity" Money
Player11
Texas
Ever have a dancer ask for a handout or loan? Usually you will be hit with drama that they are about to be evicted or have their lights shut off. My article about Dealing with Dancer Drama addresses this.
If a girl meeting me otc wants say $50 more for the session than standard price but is willing to drop the price by the same amount next time I can be flexible. But if she is asking for some huge amount like $500 in advance then it might be time to head for the lifeboats and dump her. What really burns me up is gals who don't fuck asking for loans or handouts but not willing to give me pussy in return.
I had one that buried herself in a hole like that and showed at the session too sick to fuck bc of the wisdom tooth line. This was supposed to be the first of three sessions in a week beyond our usual meetings (saw her 3 yr) and I was feeling really under pressure. I gathered my stuff and simply turned around and walked out. She asked "what about the rent." I simply said "Sorry honey, best of luck." I knew she was supporting a bum BF and this was the final straw. It felt good to keep my money and I was relieved to be thru with her. Besides, I had another girl on the roster that really wanted to move up to starter. This is why its always good to have more than one girl on the roster.
Don't advance or loan them big money for anything.
If a girl meeting me otc wants say $50 more for the session than standard price but is willing to drop the price by the same amount next time I can be flexible. But if she is asking for some huge amount like $500 in advance then it might be time to head for the lifeboats and dump her. What really burns me up is gals who don't fuck asking for loans or handouts but not willing to give me pussy in return.
I had one that buried herself in a hole like that and showed at the session too sick to fuck bc of the wisdom tooth line. This was supposed to be the first of three sessions in a week beyond our usual meetings (saw her 3 yr) and I was feeling really under pressure. I gathered my stuff and simply turned around and walked out. She asked "what about the rent." I simply said "Sorry honey, best of luck." I knew she was supporting a bum BF and this was the final straw. It felt good to keep my money and I was relieved to be thru with her. Besides, I had another girl on the roster that really wanted to move up to starter. This is why its always good to have more than one girl on the roster.
Don't advance or loan them big money for anything.
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In retrospect, I would never let myself be manipulated by such drama again nor agree to such a high POP (this was in 2007 before the recession).
ProstiTuition
1) noun - Money earned stripping, hooking, or otherwise through the sex trade which is used to pay for college expenses.
2) noun - The act of earning money through the sex trade in order to pay for college.
Consider a "loan" to a stripper as a goodbye gift. Best way to get rid of a stripper and never hear from her again. However on the rare occasion that she makes a deal with you and it pays off, congratulations.
Just before Hurricane Ike, I fell for a sob story and gave a stripper an extra 100. During Ike, she ran to San Antonio. Post Ike, she called me crying, saying she was broke and she'd fuck me for free if I rescued her from San Antonio, where she supposedly couldn't find work as a stripper. I didn't want to get sucked into some drama and told her "Sorry, good luck, but my hands were full" (as work was a mess and my place had a hole in roof and an inch of water in the kitchen). She called me the next day, crying, saying she loved me. I hung up on her.
Then I think about stripper boyfriends and it becomes confused and muddled.
Also surprised that she never seems to remember you. Every time I see her she introduces herself and gives me her same speech...you'd think by now she'd mention she remembers you.
Your definition of pity money may just be my definition of rip-off bitches hustling, but six of one, half-dozen of another.