When I'm hitting the club after a stressful day at the office, I usually just want to kick back on auto-pilot, so I tend to prefer the dancers who like to talk (and talk) and take the lead in the conversation. I'm married so I've perfected the art of smiling and nodding while pretending to listen to a woman. It passes the time in between dances and every once in a while they say something interesting/unique that leads to a real conversation. Plus the dancers seem be more ok with the fondling if they think I'm paying attention to what they're saying.
So, do you like “chatty†dancers?
I prefer one who chats. Of course it gets old when they repeat the same old woe is me story.