Special as in Special Ed
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Keep it in my pants when I do OTC. If I were a stripper it would stand for I like big bucks and I can not lie.
A top dancer is able to give you the fantasy that she is getting off on dancing for you. And we all now guys who can get it up for anything on two legs, so I'll give them them the benefit of the doubt, that there are some women who can feel some minimal arousal with just about any guy. What is weird to me is when dancers try to convince you that you are "special", that is, especially attractive to them. Even though they don't seem likely to do anything for free with you even if hell froze over. What I wonder is, are there really a lot of customers who are dumb/delusional enough to fall for this?
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Are any customers "special" to a dancer? Sure. Imagine if you were a male stripper. All day long you meet different women. Some are intelligent, some are dumb as rocks, some are your physical type, some are repellent to you. But their money all spends the same. You'll dance for all of them for the pay, but you'll surely enjoy it more with the attractive, interesting ones. I would imagine the same applies to women. They're women, but they're still human.
I've received girlfriend-type sex from dancers. Regular date situation. Dinner, movie, small talk, just like a regular girl. Dancers marry customers all the time.
Is the original assertion correct. Yes. Are there exceptions? Of course. Nothing is absolute.
The problem with this line of reasoning is that women do not think like men. To many strippers the very act of entering a strip club dings you 50 points on the attractiveness scale. Then the act of paying for a dance dings you another 50. So unless you are very attractive/famous to begin with and/or encounter those rare strippers who aren't keeping score this way you are pretty much guarenteed to be unattractive to them. They still might "like" you in the way a guy might "like" a fat chick: i.e. she might be smart/funny but most would never be turned on sexually be her. Your typical strippers is going to find something like one in several thousand of her cutsomers attractive enough to be turned on. Can the odds be beaten? Yes. Very likely? No. If you aren't already a player with supreme game? Not a chance.
I don't pay for my OTC hookups. Well, I pay for dinner, etc, but no direct cash exchange is made. I've had dancers take my shirt off on the main floor----just to "get a look at that body". I'm not Mr. Olympia. I'm not a fitness model. But when everybody else in the club is a fat old douchebag one looks good by comparison.
To be fair, the club I have the best success with is one that experiences a lot of turnover. There are always new girls, and those are where I concentrate my efforts. They're young enough where stripping is still fun for them and they haven't been hardened.
I stand by my earlier assertion. There are strippers for whom the job is a lot of fun; a sexual release. Exhibitionists, nymphomaniacs, sex addicts. They enjoy what they do. Not all are strictly mercenary man-haters. Some are freaks. And they're all human.
If a dancer just simply says "she wants me so bad" I remind myself that ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS. If she is just sitting in a chair next to me telling me this, I know it is complete bullshit. She will give an air dance with occasional grinding at best. If she is sitting on my lap and groping my package while telling me this then I will believe it enough to spend money on her.
Shadowcat
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Boy I must be really messed up. No shit.
Sleep over and smoke pot..I liked the sleeping over part but no thanks to the smoking pot.
She's my main thing.
She makes me feel alright.
She makes my heart sing
"I'm Rick James, bitch!"
I worked for 42 years at a job that was safety sensitive. For the last 25 years we were subject to random drug and alcohol testing. At 1st 50% had to be tested annually. No body got busted. I think that they have now reduced that to 5 or 10%. I have had to go piss in the bottle about 8 times. I only knew one co worker that got fired. 2nd offense.
I tried MJ 3 times back in my 20's. It did nothing for me. Now if you believe in 2nd hand smoke, I got stoned at many parties.
My best friend was a minor pot dealer. By this, I mean he only sold to his friends. I never asked his source. He was even mailing it from L.A. to a friend in Honolulu. He died at age 32. Looking back on all the people that I associated with at parties, etc. None of them ever amounted to any thing. And there were some that moved on to the higher drugs and really messed up their lives. Maybe I was lucky.
I'm in the group that doesn't care how you mistreat your body, as long as I don't get involuntarily caught up in the side effects.
Seems the possibility of drug tests keeps one clean. Because of my new job and past job, security was always a top issue. Government clearances can be difficult to obtain. One took me 1 1/2 years to acquire, but I've never been selected for a random test.
Clubber, I held a top secret clearance when I was in the USAF back in 1964. There was no drug screening back then but there was an intensified back ground check. I guess mine was done while I was still in tech school(9 months). I guess they already knew what my assignment was going to be.
I had the Top Secret classification but in the late 90's, but never "used" it and I would imagine that by now it has expired. Not sure how that works. I know for my new job, there was an intensive background screening as well as the drug testing. Having a holding a concealed permit in Florida is a rather intensive screening as well.