Strip Clubs -fantasy or reality?
gobstopper007
Every dancer’s favorite- cause they told me so
Really hard to fathom how much has changed in a month. My governor has shut down the state and toilet paper is on endangered species list. The most frustrating part to me is how politicized this has become. The leaders (and I use that term very loosely) and media outlets are more concerned with their agendas than our country recovering as quickly as possible. In past instances of national crises people would put aside politics and ideology to do what was needed to return to normal.
I apologize for the soapbox rant and will get back on topic. Do people go to strip clubs for the fantasy or the reality? Personally I go for the fantasy. I go into a club to have beautiful women flirt with me and to have them rub their stunning bodies over me. I don’t expect a relationship when I leave the club.
I have only been going to strip club for about 6 months. I go to one club and large majority of the time I go during daytime and usually when I am coming from or going to catch a flight. I am probably above average in tipping but I am not looking to be a sugar daddy and I have never brought up meeting otc for extras. I don’t want to have any real life issues interfere with my club experience. I enjoy the escape from my real world crap the club offers.
I love the fantasy and idea of the gorgeous stripper being all over me, and if current life circumstances were different (not just the CoVid stuff) I could see myself looking more for hook ups and otc. I am over 50, recently widowed with kids who haven’t quite left home for good yet. For me a great strip club visit includes lots of flirting and high mileage dances.
I know there are many here who go to clubs specifically looking to hook up either with a dancer they have scheduled to meet with or meet some new girls. If I had to estimate I would say the majority who post here are hooking up with (or at least claiming to since everything here should be regarded as fiction) but most sc customers are not TUSCL members or do not post regularly. The club I generally go to doesn’t allow extras in the club but does offer a limo ride that has no cameras (and I have enjoyed that experience). Also it seems that most of the dancers are with regulars for good part of shift (I am speaking in regards to daytime here).
There are probably thousands of articles discussing fantasy vs reality when it comes to strippers. An occasional sc visit is one of the few vices I still allow myself and that may be why I prefer the fantasy aspect, although had I known all this virus stuff was going to happen I probably would have given out contact information when a couple of girls asked. Damn I do miss boobs!
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"... I have only been going to strip club for about 6 months ... I am not looking to be a sugar daddy and I have never brought up meeting otc for extras ... I don’t want to have any real life issues interfere with my club experience ..."
These statements go hand-in-hand - many SCers go thru phases if they stick to SCing often-enough and long-enough - i.e. there's more to be had w.r.t SCing other than just expensive lap-dances - i.e. for many, mere lap-dances don't cut-it after a while - taking-it out-of-the-club w/ a dancer(s) has its pros and cons - one can have a much better/different experience, but the shit can also hit-the-fan if one is inexperienced in the SC-game and goes into it w/ civilian-colored-glasses - one can def get burned bad if they don't know, or is unaware, or it's unable, to see the potential pitfalls/red-flags - taking it out-of-the-club can be a good experience if one knows what they are doing so they won't be taken advantage of.
"... If I had to estimate I would say the majority who post here are hooking up with (dancers) ..."
Not sure what you mean by "hooking up" - if you mean there are many TUSCLers that are into faves and arrange to meet up w/ a specific dancer at a club (or out of a club), yeah that seems to be the M.O. for many TUSCLers/experienced-SCers - if by "hooking up" you mean they are fucking/dating dancers sans money being transferred, that is a tiny % close to a rounding-error IMO.
In the end, as far as I'm concerned, just b/c I'm paying for it does not mean I can't enjoy it (analogous to how I enjoy eating out, etc); but neither does it mean that it's anything more than a service-transaction w/ rare-exceptions. I think this quote from a dancer on StripperWeb.com kinda speaks a lot to how differently dancers and custies see things:
"... You can only make so much selling dances, but when you really get into a guys head and heart, you get into his wallet ..."
https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showth…
IMO - for some/many PLs, getting to date/fuck a dancer for free is the ultimate "fantasy" - whereas IMO for many dancers, the ultimate is how much $$$ they can extract from each and every PL (w/ very-few exceptions).
The awesome reality is this service/fantasy is widely available for about a dime a second. The other wonderful reality is wife is okay with this occasion fantasy. (Eventually, again as virus concerns fade)