A message I could tell any customer in a club
Fei_Dancer
Yes of course, this is a job and at the end of the day, I would not be there unless it was for the money. I'm not a huge fan of strangers seeing me naked and getting groped all night. Or disrespected. But aside from all that, when I sit down and talk to you, I care about what you're saying. I care about the happy things and sad things you've gone through and I like building a personal and human connection. I always tell customers to treat the dancers with respect. Treat others as you would like to be treated. But sometimes we forget that customers are people too. With lives and jobs and feelings and hearts. And I want anyone I interact with to know that I remember that fact. I care about you as a person and I hope that the time we have in the club is a positive one.
I know that girls are "supposed to make guys feel special", and I know it's a fantasy (and it is, as far as the touching goes). But as far as human interaction goes, I want you to feel like you mean something. And I want you to leave feeling better than you came in. That means I did my job right and it means I impacted someone positively and that (along with the money) makes the other stuff bearable.
Just wanted to share. I care about doing a good job, and that to me means making someone feel like they matter.
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You don't want these hotties to be in sensible shoes, you want them to be in high heels and makeup. So you should support your local strippers.
But then by all means, you want to get your girl off script and treat her no differently than you would any other woman.
Treat her like you just met her at a party, or like it is your first date with her.
And of course, buying dances is for chumps. Instead, turn on some charm and get a front room makeout session going. Invite her to the back room when it is time for your own pants to come down. Then take her home with you to continue. And then see her regularly.
And it all starts by simply selecting the girl you want, the one you want to be waking up in the mornings with, and then approaching her yourself. And best to always start by demonstrating generosity.
Fei_Dancer, welcome to TUSCL.
SJG
I wish every dancer had this same attitude.
SJG
Making money as a stripper is so hard these days. It's really just a gateway to drugs, prostitution and mental health issues plus STD's.
I would not recommend this profession to anyone except working girls who wanna walk around offering blow jobs for the same price as a lap dance or hookers that wanna charge higher rates.
It's easy to say your spiel to a bunch of readers you'll more than likely never meet.
That statement proves it. Wtf are you working at a strip club then?
I can't stand those types of strippers. Outside of South, FL where I am from, the population of those type of strippers are huge.
I'm there to get sucked and fucked. If I want to talk, I'll go to a happy bar to hit on a broad.
Many clubs I have been to have one (or two) dancers that have a loving and caring disposition (like yours)
Usually older and mature dancers - and fit and charming.
It's not every customers cup of tea - but it's good to have such variety in the club.
justohooot - likewise stripping is not for every woman.
Ha Ha - I also miss the days when Stripping and pole dancing was erotic art enjoyed by gentlemen, from a distance!
Dancers today are young, untamed and strive for their guy to nut in 4 songs.
It's not something I expected - but have gladly accepted new reality.
I don't think today's dancers have mental issues - it's just an emancipated breed who enjoy sex.
Very few can work the pole - but not many care.