Ever since I started clubbing in earnest in the mid 90s, I have kept a log of every strip club visit and (in recent years) OTC date. In this log I record the date, name of club, and names of dancers that I did dances or otherwise, um, engaged with. As I’ve related before, I was a very slow learner: except for the occasional unsolicited handjob, I never got off from anything besides lap dances until 2013, when I got my first BJ from a stripper at Palace in the Pines near Youngstown, OH. Furthermore, I never saw a dancer OTC until almost the end of 2015 and had a total of about 25 such dates as of the end of 2017.
However, due to a combination of greater affluence and increased confidence, along with lots of useful advice from the TUSCL discussion board, 2018 has most definitely been the Year of OTC for me! I had a grand total of 64 dates with strippers this year, usually for a meal and a BJ, though a surprising number of these dates were completely sexless but nonetheless enjoyable.
For the year, I enjoyed 76 SCOREs (Stripper-Caused Orgasmic Release Events), 59 of which were blowjobs. Most of the remaining 17 were lapgasms. Most of these 59 BJs, in turn, took place on dates in hotel rooms. There were several variations:
- morning BJ plus lunch
- afternoon lunch plus BJ
- evening dinner plus BJ (all of these were priced at $200-250)
- overnight including dinner, BJs at bedtime and in the morning, and brunch (such a date tended to be priced at $500-550)
One unexpected development this year was a total of 22 sexless dates with two different dancers from a non-extras club that I frequent. I have known both of them for several years and finally started seeing them OTC early in the year, but they had no interest in doing anything sexual so I was content to pay them $150 for a three-hour date that usually involved a nice ethnic dinner (Korean, Japanese, Vietnamese, Thai, Indian, or Mexican) followed by hot tubbing and nude bed dances in my hotel room. However, one of them broke up with a boyfriend and started spending nights with me for $300-400, depending on duration, until she acquired another boyfriend and our dates came to an end.
As it happens, these two companions for sexless dates both moved on by the end of 2018, so going into 2019, I have a “harem” of about six strippers who have sucked my dick in hotel rooms in the past year and are willing to do so again, with two more waiting in the wings. In fact, I have a lunch or dinner + BJ date lined up each week for the next couple of months. Last year I sometimes had two or even three dates in the same week, but I’ve decided that the right pace for my aging body is one date a week.
In general I’m rather slow to move the fun from ITC to OTC. As a matter of fact, in most cases I’ve done lappers or VIPs with a dancer for several months, if not years, before we see each other outside the club. It is also striking that most of the 19 strippers that I’ve seen OTC since 2015 have been the ones to suggest it, sometimes after just one or two VIPs. I hear things like “Do you ever see girls outside the club?” or “If you’d like, we could do the same thing in a hotel room, but with less clothing!” Even so, I usually wait a few months before I make the leap. I want to be sure we can get along for an hour ITC before I commit to 3+ hours OTC!
The ages of my OTC girls over the past three years have varied widely, from 22 to 44, though most of the 19 girls have been 30-33 years old at the time of our first date. The number of dates with any given stripper has also ranged from one date with a few to four girls that I've seen 20, 14, 13, and 10 times, respectively. Some are highly reliable: one in particular (whom I've seen 13 times) always says yes, is always grateful to be asked, never cancels, and always shows up on time. Others are highly unreliable: one is almost always 30-60 minutes late whereas another stood me up six times and showed up only twice -- she was unbelievably hot and skilled but has been culled from the herd!
Becoming rather proficient at identifying prospective OTC girls and closing the deal has changed my attitude toward new strippers that I meet. If her club is in a town that I often stay in and we click during lap dances or in the VIP room, I’m likely to think of her as a possible OTC companion and to steer the conversation accordingly.
As a planner by nature, I try to anticipate at the beginning of each year who I’m likely to see OTC that year, but it really is a crap shoot. Strippers that I thought would be OTC mainstays sometimes fizzle out after a date or two, whereas I unexpectedly see others many times. One chick that I hadn’t even thought about for OTC at the beginning of 2018 ended up blowing me 13 times on dates last year! As we veteran hobbyists know, strippers can be highly unpredictable: they get into relationships, change clubs, or suddenly decide that they’re finished with anything stripper-related, including OTC. Therefore I go to each of my two favorite clubs, where I’ve met almost all of my OTC girls, with the attitude “Recruit! Recruit! Recruit!”
Seeing strippers OTC has undoubtedly postponed the age at which I retire from clubbing into the indefinite future. Lapgasms, which provided essentially all of my SCOREs for almost 20 years, are no longer a reliable source of orgasmic pleasure, but blowjobs almost always do the trick! Furthermore, since most of my visits to the cities of my two favorite clubs now include an OTC date (or two), I now dine alone much less often than I used to in those cities. I've even taken three different strippers to a comedy club and one to a movie.
As you can tell, I'm a big fan of OTC dates with strippers and plan to continue with them for as long as my health and finances allow.
Great read. And kudos for working "earnest" into the lead. Interesting concept to keep meticulous statistics like this. You must be well off financially to indulge in so many encounters in a year at those prices. I sometimes picture this kind of lifestyle if I ever become wealthy. A few questions, if you don't mind, for those of us who live vicariously through others or dream of a life with more pussy.