I've recently become single and I am trying to find a girlfriend. Despite going to events and dance clubs frequented by single women whenever I can; it hasn't been going well: I think the fact that I am over forty and have been hitting on women in their late 20's and early 30's might be one of the reasons :) but that's another story. Anyways, when I was in my late 20's and early 30's I used to go to strip clubs a lot with my friends (before I met my ex) but I haven't gone at all in the last decade. Last week, I thought about going to a strip club again: but like most things, the first thing I did was research the issue on the internet. .
I googled "going to a strip club in your forties" and I got a lot of mixed results from: "It's creepy" to "it's normal". So I just went; and the funny thing is, when I first entered the club the first thing I saw was an older man (must have been over seventy) sitting alone at the bar. I immediately felt better so I just sat at a table: a pretty waitress came over and asked me what I wanted and then she quickly served my drink. It was kinda early in the evening and there weren't that many dancers in the club. But out of nowhere a pretty young blonde girl (must have been 21) came over and asked me if I wanted a dance: "she looks young enough to be your daughter" is the first thing I heard inside my head (and why am I thinking of such things now?) but my cock still got hard. Nevertheless I passed, "I like older brunettes anyway" I thought to myself.
I saw several dancers on stage but I wasn't interested enough in any of them. So I got up and sat at the bar next to the older man, and what do you know? Out of nowhere, a beautiful athletic (early to mid 30's) brunette: shapely butt and big fake breasts, came over and asked me if I wanted a dance: but like an idiot I hesitated since I had just ordered a drink, so she quickly moved on. I sat at the bar as minutes turned into an hour and the club got busier: I never saw the brunette again except at the stage. And when I went to the stage and tipped her as I asked her for a dance; she said she was with a customer and that she would give me a dance after she was done. I waited some more but never saw her. Meanwhile, the young blonde from earlier came over and playfully touched my hair: "I like your long hair" she said: I think she may have been drinking. So I asked her, "you look so young, how old are you exactly?" . "24" she said, then she added: "do you want a dance?". "24 is not that young" I wrongly thought to myself, so I said "of course".
The young blonde gave me an incredible dance, straddling me, hugging me, kissing my neck. At one point she asked me: "why aren't you touching me more?", "you can touch me everywhere except here" she said pointing to her pussy, so I did touch everywhere (except there). I gotta say the dance was much better than I remembered back in the early '00s (or maybe it was the same: it's been so long) so much so that I spent all my money on her.
But anyway, now I want to go back (since I'm still single anyway) to get a dance from the brunette (and maybe the blonde too). But I just don't want to get hooked and start going all the time like me and my friends did "back in the day". Any comments from frequent strip club customers over forty: would you recommend that I go back or to just forget about it and keep living my life? How often do you go? Do you get treated differently than younger customers?
Go for it, if you've got the cash. Just don't go in with the intent to meet your future wife. All that said, I'm in my 50s and get better treatment for the most part than I ever did when I was in my 30s, which were my last big SC-going era. Admittedly I dress better (and perhaps "richer") now and have less of the "green slime" on me than when I first started going and thinking then that maybe there would be a connection of some kind and I could leave my wife or something. And the irony is that I get more dinner and OTC propositions now (at least a third of the visits I make) than I ever did when I was younger. The first thing that comes to the girl's mind is (and has to be) money. They will approach the guy who looks like he has it or invests in taking care of himself. That said, there are plenty of gals with tats and with attitudes that make them more st home with the hoods. If you go to a particular club enough, you'll see who they are and also the "types" they hang with. One girl I remember almost always hung out with old guys for 2 hours and then young douchey college guys the rest of the night. Other gals will find something in everybody they see - they are more "the pros". A lot of gals don't have that confidence or interest.