Strip Clubs after 40
Jmichel2
Arizona
I've recently become single and I am trying to find a girlfriend. Despite going to events and dance clubs frequented by single women whenever I can; it hasn't been going well: I think the fact that I am over forty and have been hitting on women in their late 20's and early 30's might be one of the reasons :) but that's another story. Anyways, when I was in my late 20's and early 30's I used to go to strip clubs a lot with my friends (before I met my ex) but I haven't gone at all in the last decade. Last week, I thought about going to a strip club again: but like most things, the first thing I did was research the issue on the internet. .
I googled "going to a strip club in your forties" and I got a lot of mixed results from: "It's creepy" to "it's normal". So I just went; and the funny thing is, when I first entered the club the first thing I saw was an older man (must have been over seventy) sitting alone at the bar.
I immediately felt better so I just sat at a table: a pretty waitress came over and asked me what I wanted and then she quickly served my drink.
It was kinda early in the evening and there weren't that many dancers in the club. But out of nowhere a pretty young blonde girl (must have been 21) came over and asked me if I wanted a dance: "she looks young enough to be your daughter" is the first thing I heard inside my head (and why am I thinking of such things now?) but my cock still got hard. Nevertheless I passed, "I like older brunettes anyway" I thought to myself.
I saw several dancers on stage but I wasn't interested enough in any of them. So I got up and sat at the bar next to the older man, and what do you know? Out of nowhere, a beautiful athletic (early to mid 30's) brunette: shapely butt and big fake breasts, came over and asked me if I wanted a dance: but like an idiot I hesitated since I had just ordered a drink, so she quickly moved on.
I sat at the bar as minutes turned into an hour and the club got busier: I never saw the brunette again except at the stage. And when I went to the stage and tipped her as I asked her for a dance; she said she was with a customer and that she would give me a dance after she was done.
I waited some more but never saw her. Meanwhile, the young blonde from earlier came over and playfully touched my hair: "I like your long hair" she said: I think she may have been drinking. So I asked her, "you look so young, how old are you exactly?" . "24" she said,
then she added: "do you want a dance?". "24 is not that young" I wrongly thought to myself, so I said "of course".
The young blonde gave me an incredible dance, straddling me, hugging me, kissing my neck. At one point she asked me: "why aren't you touching me more?", "you can touch me everywhere except here" she said pointing to her pussy, so I did touch everywhere (except there). I gotta say the dance was much better than I remembered back in the early '00s (or maybe it was the same: it's been so long) so much so that I spent all my money on her.
But anyway, now I want to go back (since I'm still single anyway) to get a dance from the brunette (and maybe the blonde too). But I just don't want to get hooked and start going all the time like me and my friends did "back in the day". Any comments from frequent strip club customers over forty: would you recommend that I go back or to just forget about it and keep living my life? How often do you go? Do you get treated differently than younger customers?
I googled "going to a strip club in your forties" and I got a lot of mixed results from: "It's creepy" to "it's normal". So I just went; and the funny thing is, when I first entered the club the first thing I saw was an older man (must have been over seventy) sitting alone at the bar.
I immediately felt better so I just sat at a table: a pretty waitress came over and asked me what I wanted and then she quickly served my drink.
It was kinda early in the evening and there weren't that many dancers in the club. But out of nowhere a pretty young blonde girl (must have been 21) came over and asked me if I wanted a dance: "she looks young enough to be your daughter" is the first thing I heard inside my head (and why am I thinking of such things now?) but my cock still got hard. Nevertheless I passed, "I like older brunettes anyway" I thought to myself.
I saw several dancers on stage but I wasn't interested enough in any of them. So I got up and sat at the bar next to the older man, and what do you know? Out of nowhere, a beautiful athletic (early to mid 30's) brunette: shapely butt and big fake breasts, came over and asked me if I wanted a dance: but like an idiot I hesitated since I had just ordered a drink, so she quickly moved on.
I sat at the bar as minutes turned into an hour and the club got busier: I never saw the brunette again except at the stage. And when I went to the stage and tipped her as I asked her for a dance; she said she was with a customer and that she would give me a dance after she was done.
I waited some more but never saw her. Meanwhile, the young blonde from earlier came over and playfully touched my hair: "I like your long hair" she said: I think she may have been drinking. So I asked her, "you look so young, how old are you exactly?" . "24" she said,
then she added: "do you want a dance?". "24 is not that young" I wrongly thought to myself, so I said "of course".
The young blonde gave me an incredible dance, straddling me, hugging me, kissing my neck. At one point she asked me: "why aren't you touching me more?", "you can touch me everywhere except here" she said pointing to her pussy, so I did touch everywhere (except there). I gotta say the dance was much better than I remembered back in the early '00s (or maybe it was the same: it's been so long) so much so that I spent all my money on her.
But anyway, now I want to go back (since I'm still single anyway) to get a dance from the brunette (and maybe the blonde too). But I just don't want to get hooked and start going all the time like me and my friends did "back in the day". Any comments from frequent strip club customers over forty: would you recommend that I go back or to just forget about it and keep living my life? How often do you go? Do you get treated differently than younger customers?
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w.r.t. strip-clubs too many newbies think of a strip-club as a nightclub and think erroneous things like:
+ oh, it'll be weird to go alone; I'll stand-out
+ they think they are gonna hook-up w/ a dancer or think a dancer that showers them w/ attention "is into them"
+ they think touching a dancer or being w/ a much younger girl is taboo
Strip-clubs are not the real-world; they are bizarro-world and going to them w/ a "real-world" mindset/expectations is what gets many newbs in trouble - strip-clubs are a different environment and play by different rules; sorta like someone in prison has to adapt and learn the rules of that environment lest he gets taken advantage off:
+ most people go to SCs alone - it's a sex industry - it's more analogous to going to see an escort or being on a date - most people don't go see an escort or go on a date and bring along their buddies - if one wants to just hang and treat the SC like a regular bar and is not interested in getting-dances; then ok take your buds - but if one's main interest is to interact w/ the dancers then other people just get in the way (do you need your buddy w/ you when getting dances?)
+ SCs are a BUSINESS - not a single's bar or nightclub to hook-up - most of those girls there already have a BF outside the club - they go there to make $$$ not look for a hook-up - in fact most dancers look down upon guys that frequent strip-clubs and see them as losers and thus not dating material (plus you really don't want to date a stripper if you are not intimately familiar w/ the SC game and everything that comes w/ that) - strippers are sales-people and they'll do w/e it takes to make the sale and get their $$$ and that includes making you think they are into you - dancers making you think they are into you is as common as g-strings in a strip-club
If you want or need a relationship; then SCs are not the cure for that - SCs are about no-strings-attached fun w/ nice-looking naked women; it's about getting one's natural physical needs met; it's NOT the place to get one's emotional needs met - SCs work for some and not for others - if you enjoy it then fuck what anyone else thinks; it's your life (and don't bother telling others about how much you enjoy them; most people think it's a waste of $$$ or a bad-thing).
I'm 46; after I turned 40 I didn't wanna deal w/ shit in my life - did not want the overhead of a relationship and everything that comes w/ that just so I could have some companionship and maybe get some pussy every once in a while - at this stage in my life I value my freedom and doing as I please more than having a chick there all the time; and I can have my needs met in a strip-club and those needs don't include a relationship - depending on your area/city; in certain clubs you can fuck and get your needs met and many a SCer also meet strippers outside the club (OTC) but one needs to know what they are doing.
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The money goes fast and as a result I'm mainly just seeing two gals I've been seeing for 7 years and who have become friends ( fuckbuddies?) who sometimes hit me up for cash and who sometimes fuck my brains out.
Being in your 40's should not be an impediment to developing a relationship with a civvy if the rest of your package ( appearance, personality, employment, etc.) is not offensive. One of my stripper friends also sees a guy in his 50's who she swears acts older than I do.
Age is a state of mind as well as a chronological measure.
You're at a prime age for strip clubs, you'll get more attention than a 20 or 30 year old. The older you get the more strippers perceive you to have disposable income.
I travel a lot for work and many times sitting in a hotel room late at night I have felt a tremendous amount of guilt after leaving a strip club having spent hundreds of dollars. It goes away, and you just have to look at it as the cost of entertaining yourself, nothing more.
It's not cut out for everyone, but if you've already put this much research into it, you may find you enjoy it, and there's absolutely nothing wrong with that.
Go your own way in life free of nagging wife/girlfriends and enjoy all the freedoms to do whatever fuck you always wanting, including lapdance and OTC from hot dancers. Always remember you are in the control and holding the true prize.