I've been steady clubbing for almost two years. I average once or twice a week, can easily guess I've blown $25k in that short amount of time, so as far as hours put in I'm probably 7 years more than a casual goer.
So many times here I've heard that the reason men go to strip clubs is to live out their fantasy. The strippers are hot girls who wouldn’t normally talk to a PL in the real world, but there, in the club he can pay for her time and affection.
The dream of fucking hot strippers vanished after the first few interactions, and after finding out how relatively common doing so was. Got to the point where I turned into the guy who figured at the right price you could fuck any girl (non-strippers included). Also I noticed that the last few times felt like I just was going through motions myself. Had to work really really hard to bust a small nut.
Reality hit me, I'm not into just busting a nut for the sake of busting a nut.
Turns out I like drama. I'm a damn emotional junkie. And the amount of nut I bust is directly tied to the level of emotional investment I have in the female I'm busting it on. Simply put the more I get to know a girl and get dysfunctionally emotionally attached, omg is that a nut that's gonna get me high AF.
"Get a girlfriend " one might suggest. .
Fuck no, pussy grows stale and nagging. I can't function in obligation, which most relationships turn into. I like the "NSA but keep me coming back because I can't survive without you" feeling.
The smart girls at the club are catching on and giving me a boat load. Jealousy if I dance with another, Caddy infighting as to who is gonna get my attention, one will blow me off to make less money and then tell me that it's all my fault she didn't make goal. And then theirs been a few shouting matches (club won't kick me out I pay to well, plus the bartender knows that I'm harmless and just a emotional junkie)
The new thing for me is telling these girls to play hard to get. Gone are the days where I walk in and actually pay for a $20 dance for myself. No I pay for another customer to get one while i watch, and the stripper eye fucks me while do her thing for the other guy. FYI -- pretty interesting how many guys turn down a free dance because the stripper won't look them in the eye. And I can understand that whole cuckold porn thing now, it does get me pretty riled up watching a bitch get dirty with someone else. Also getting stripped teased is a lost art.
And we always say guys go to the strip club for different reasons I realized mine based mostly on emotion not the necessarily the physical aspect.
