The Other Nut to Bust
GACA
Un-retired: Met my ATF. Married her. Divorcing her.
I've been steady clubbing for almost two years. I average once or twice a week, can easily guess I've blown $25k in that short amount of time, so as far as hours put in I'm probably 7 years more than a casual goer.
So many times here I've heard that the reason men go to strip clubs is to live out their fantasy.
The strippers are hot girls who wouldn’t normally talk to a PL in the real world, but there, in the club he can pay for her time and affection.
The dream of fucking hot strippers vanished after the first few interactions, and after finding out how relatively common doing so was. Got to the point where I turned into the guy who figured at the right price you could fuck any girl (non-strippers included). Also I noticed that the last few times felt like I just was going through motions myself. Had to work really really hard to bust a small nut.
Reality hit me, I'm not into just busting a nut for the sake of busting a nut.
Turns out I like drama. I'm a damn emotional junkie. And the amount of nut I bust is directly tied to the level of emotional investment I have in the female I'm busting it on. Simply put the more I get to know a girl and get dysfunctionally emotionally attached, omg is that a nut that's gonna get me high AF.
"Get a girlfriend " one might suggest. .
Fuck no, pussy grows stale and nagging. I can't function in obligation, which most relationships turn into. I like the "NSA but keep me coming back because I can't survive without you" feeling.
The smart girls at the club are catching on and giving me a boat load. Jealousy if I dance with another, Caddy infighting as to who is gonna get my attention, one will blow me off to make less money and then tell me that it's all my fault she didn't make goal. And then theirs been a few shouting matches (club won't kick me out I pay to well, plus the bartender knows that I'm harmless and just a emotional junkie)
The new thing for me is telling these girls to play hard to get. Gone are the days where I walk in and actually pay for a $20 dance for myself. No I pay for another customer to get one while i watch, and the stripper eye fucks me while do her thing for the other guy. FYI -- pretty interesting how many guys turn down a free dance because the stripper won't look them in the eye. And I can understand that whole cuckold porn thing now, it does get me pretty riled up watching a bitch get dirty with someone else. Also getting stripped teased is a lost art.
And we always say guys go to the strip club for different reasons I realized mine based mostly on emotion not the necessarily the physical aspect.
So many times here I've heard that the reason men go to strip clubs is to live out their fantasy.
The strippers are hot girls who wouldn’t normally talk to a PL in the real world, but there, in the club he can pay for her time and affection.
The dream of fucking hot strippers vanished after the first few interactions, and after finding out how relatively common doing so was. Got to the point where I turned into the guy who figured at the right price you could fuck any girl (non-strippers included). Also I noticed that the last few times felt like I just was going through motions myself. Had to work really really hard to bust a small nut.
Reality hit me, I'm not into just busting a nut for the sake of busting a nut.
Turns out I like drama. I'm a damn emotional junkie. And the amount of nut I bust is directly tied to the level of emotional investment I have in the female I'm busting it on. Simply put the more I get to know a girl and get dysfunctionally emotionally attached, omg is that a nut that's gonna get me high AF.
"Get a girlfriend " one might suggest. .
Fuck no, pussy grows stale and nagging. I can't function in obligation, which most relationships turn into. I like the "NSA but keep me coming back because I can't survive without you" feeling.
The smart girls at the club are catching on and giving me a boat load. Jealousy if I dance with another, Caddy infighting as to who is gonna get my attention, one will blow me off to make less money and then tell me that it's all my fault she didn't make goal. And then theirs been a few shouting matches (club won't kick me out I pay to well, plus the bartender knows that I'm harmless and just a emotional junkie)
The new thing for me is telling these girls to play hard to get. Gone are the days where I walk in and actually pay for a $20 dance for myself. No I pay for another customer to get one while i watch, and the stripper eye fucks me while do her thing for the other guy. FYI -- pretty interesting how many guys turn down a free dance because the stripper won't look them in the eye. And I can understand that whole cuckold porn thing now, it does get me pretty riled up watching a bitch get dirty with someone else. Also getting stripped teased is a lost art.
And we always say guys go to the strip club for different reasons I realized mine based mostly on emotion not the necessarily the physical aspect.
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Horse for courses. Me, I'm just looking for beautiful women, who are a giggly, jiggly, bubbly distraction. So I prefer anti-drama.
I know that this is what lots of guys think, but I don't go along with it.
People say that the fantasy put out by strip clubs is that you can fuck a hot looking girl. But usually this is not fantasy. If you want it, one way or another, it can often be reality.
The fantasy is that these hot looking and sexual available babes are women that you could potentially possess in a conventional relationship. That fantasy is almost always not a reality. Conventional relationships are always challenged nowadays, and with their hotties it would not go any easier. So strippers will for an interval of time act like they are your girlfriend. No problem. What they are giving you can be very good.
But my contention is that strip clubs are very important for the sexual aesthetics which they teach. But beyond that, strip clubs are not a solution to anything. Such solutions we will have to find other ways to create.
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And I also like to have some emotional investment in my strippers, it definitely makes the sex better. It doesn't manifest itself with me the way it does with you ... I am definitely looking to adore the stripper I'm with, and a little drama here and there keeps things spicy. Not interested in seeing her dance on someone else, or get truly emotionally invested, but I don't want to be emotionally neutral towards her. The big advantage of strip clubs over everything else in the sex industry, is how affordable it is to spend time with her, and build up a bit of investment, so that the splooge is spectacular
Most of the time it is the women who do most of the accommodating in order to make conventional relationships work. With a sex worker, she probably is already quite jaded.
SJG
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