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I am in my late forties; Indian guy, immigrated here in the mid 80s. I have been married for 25+ years. I am in extremely good shape and workout 5-6 days a week. Being married my monthly spending limit is about $500.

I started visiting strip clubs while traveling for work about 10 years back. I travel a lot for work to client sites and am typically out of town at least 1-2 days a week. In strip clubs, I normally only watch and sometimes do laps in the main area. I am not interested in VIP extras since I am scared of catching something.

About 6 years ago, I went to a bikini bar in Oxnard while traveling for work. I met this hot 40+ blonde MILF. I would not call her a stripper or a dancer because she did neither. She seemed like a fish out of water out there. She was a 10 with a body of a 20 yr old. About 5' 2” tall, 100 lbs with awesome natural C cups.. She was new to the bar because she lost her “real” job about a month back, and was in financial trouble. We talked for a few hours and came to an arrangement. We would meet 4-5 times a month for 500 a month.

She quit the bar, a couple of weeks later to work at a local retailer. She would stay overnight at my hotel. She was a clean freak but very sensual. No anal, but everything was awesome. She would drain me with a BJ about 30 minutes after my first pop. Sometimes, I thought I could not get it up again, but she would stay down there for 10-15 minutes till I came! I never did go down on her ever. This went on for about 2 years. Over the months, she was upfront and told me she found two other Sugar Daddies on one of the sugar daddy sites. They were all married and she assured me that she played very safe with them just like she did with me.

I stopped seeing her when I found a married lady around my age on Ashley Madison (after about 5 years on that site!) . The married lady was a 5 (compared to my 10 sugar baby) but it was so exciting not to pay for it and the connection, etc. Totally different feel to the relationship plus it was nice to receive 'free' BBBJCIM from her. We used to meet once a week initially.. Now we still see each other, but only like once every 2 months for very specific fantasies :) . She has put on a lot of weight since I first saw her.. She is now a 3-4. My chances of lucking out at Ashley Madison again are slim to none.

So, I started looking for a sugar baby again. Unfortunately, I could not connect via email or text with my ex sugar baby (the 10 MILF). Also, I did not find anything like my original sugar baby at strip clubs. Most strippers I talked with want 200-300 per meeting and I do not feel sexually safe doing strippers.

So, I visited the usual Sugar Daddy sites online. I got a few dates but no one agreeing to my price range. Then I put up Ads in the craigslist personal sections (not casual encounters!) and got lucky with 2 different Latina ladies. Actually 6-7 Latina ladies agreed, but I picked 2. Both young, short, very light skin, and in their early 20s. Both single, struggling to pay rent etc. My arrangement with them was the same (500 a month for 5-6 meetings a month). The first sugar baby (8 looks, 6 body) did it all (anal / bbbjcim etc.). I ended it with her about 6 months back when she started drinking way too much. The current sugar baby (6 looks, 8 body) for 3 months is conventional sex only. Not even oral but I think it will happen when I threaten to move on :)

In summary, if you are looking for sugar babies this is my experience:

1) A craigslist ad in the personals section is the way to go. Sometimes they flag and ban the ad but keep trying.

2) younger ladies (19-23) are more likely to be in a married guys range ($500 a month)

3) older ladies want more (pay rent/mortgage or kids etc.)

4) Latinas are most likely to be in a married guys budget range.