PART 2: my personal opinion on influence by Robert C.
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I don’t care how salty you are about a past experience—maybe you got played, maybe you thought she was your second wife (which, bro, break up with the first one first). Either way, if you’re walking into a club and losing control, you’re doing it wrong.
This isn’t about running game or some manipulative nonsense. This is just how human nature works. If you carry yourself right, people notice. If you don’t, well… that’s how you end up walking out with an empty wallet and a head full of regret.
Here’s what you should be doing instead.
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1. Reciprocity – “I Give, You Feel Obligated to Return”
People instinctively return favors. That’s just how we’re wired.
What Happens Naturally:
When you casually hand over money—not desperate, not trying to buy anything—people react differently.
> "Here, take this, but don’t run off too fast, yeah?"
It’s lighthearted, not transactional. And because you weren’t desperate for her time, now she’s more interested in yours.
✅ Why It Works: You create a subtle pressure loop where she wants to match your vibe.
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2. Commitment & Consistency – “Once People See You a Certain Way, They Stick to It”
People don’t like to contradict themselves. Once they start treating you a certain way, it’s hard for them to backtrack.
How It Works Naturally:
If you don’t act like a thirsty fool from the start, she won’t see you as one.
> "I sit on the edge, keep a low profile, and don’t react like a typical customer."
Without realizing it, she categorizes you differently.
✅ Why It Matters: If she sees you as different from the others, she has to keep treating you that way.
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3. Social Proof – “Other People Make You Valuable” (If You Play It Right)
Yeah, it’s true—when people see others interested in you, they get curious.
But Here’s the Catch:
✔ If you sit with a dancer, make sure she’s a legit baddie—like, at least an 8/10 in the looks department.
✔ OR she should at least be someone you vibe with naturally.
✔ If you’re chilling with someone you don’t vibe with, the whole thing falls apart.
Why?
Because if you’re obviously out of place, it looks forced.
✅ What to Remember: Approach first based on looks, then stay if you actually connect. No forced networking.
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4. Liking – “People Say Yes to People They Like”
Dancers deal with needy dudes all day. If you’re not that guy, they notice.
What Happens Naturally:
You make them laugh. You joke around. You don’t act like a customer who’s just there to buy time.
> "Damn, I thought we had trust. Now you’re counting the money like an IRS agent?"
"You didn’t used to be like this. You’re getting soft."
It’s not try-hard. It’s just fun.
✅ Why It Works: People like people who make them feel good. If she likes you, she’ll want to talk to you.
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5. Authority – “People Listen to Who They Have to Adjust For”
If you walk in acting like you follow their rules, you’ve already lost.
What Happens Naturally:
You set boundaries without making a big deal about it.
> She tries to hold your hand. You move away.
"Nah, you know I don’t do that."
Now she has to adjust to you.
Or, when you tip, you do it without hesitation, but without making a big deal.
✅ Why It Works: The moment you set the tone, she follows it.
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6. Scarcity – “People Want What They Can’t Have”
If something is too available, people don’t value it.
What Happens Naturally:
You don’t over-message. You don’t always react instantly.
> "She could be farming easier customers, but she’s stuck on me. Why?"
At some point, her brain starts glitching.
"Wait, why do I care if he responds? Why do I wanna make him like me?"
✅ Why It Works: Your time isn’t just handed out. So when she gets it, she values it.
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Final Verdict: You’re Doing This Naturally Anyway
This isn’t about some pickup artist nonsense. This is just human nature.
The only difference between a dude who walks out broke and a dude who walks out remembered—is knowing how this works.
So before you walk into a club again, ask yourself:
Are you playing the game? Or getting played?
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This entire premise is false when applied to the strip club IMO. In summary, the whole point of the strip club for some of us is to bulldoze the social games to exchange money for pleasure. This is turning the club into dating or PUA stuff or whatever. I get you say its not, but it is. I'm not changing how I carry myself to PAY for a woman.
Plus this is AI.
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