PART 2: my personal opinion on influence by Robert C.
The Art of Influence: How Not to Be a Simp in a Strip Club
I don’t care how salty you are about a past experience—maybe you got played, maybe you thought she was your second wife (which, bro, break up with the first one first). Either way, if you’re walking into a club and losing control, you’re doing it wrong.
This isn’t about running game or some manipulative nonsense. This is just how human nature works. If you carry yourself right, people notice. If you don’t, well… that’s how you end up walking out with an empty wallet and a head full of regret.
Here’s what you should be doing instead.
- Reciprocity – “I Give, You Feel Obligated to Return”
People instinctively return favors. That’s just how we’re wired.
What Happens Naturally:
When you casually hand over money—not desperate, not trying to buy anything—people react differently.
"Here, take this, but don’t run off too fast, yeah?"
It’s lighthearted, not transactional. And because you weren’t desperate for her time, now she’s more interested in yours.
✅ Why It Works: You create a subtle pressure loop where she wants to match your vibe.
- Commitment & Consistency – “Once People See You a Certain Way, They Stick to It”
People don’t like to contradict themselves. Once they start treating you a certain way, it’s hard for them to backtrack.
How It Works Naturally:
If you don’t act like a thirsty fool from the start, she won’t see you as one.
"I sit on the edge, keep a low profile, and don’t react like a typical customer."
Without realizing it, she categorizes you differently.
✅ Why It Matters: If she sees you as different from the others, she has to keep treating you that way.
- Social Proof – “Other People Make You Valuable” (If You Play It Right)
Yeah, it’s true—when people see others interested in you, they get curious.
But Here’s the Catch:
✔ If you sit with a dancer, make sure she’s a legit baddie—like, at least an 8/10 in the looks department.
✔ OR she should at least be someone you vibe with naturally.
✔ If you’re chilling with someone you don’t vibe with, the whole thing falls apart.
Why?
Because if you’re obviously out of place, it looks forced.
✅ What to Remember: Approach first based on looks, then stay if you actually connect. No forced networking.
- Liking – “People Say Yes to People They Like”
Dancers deal with needy dudes all day. If you’re not that guy, they notice.
What Happens Naturally:
You make them laugh. You joke around. You don’t act like a customer who’s just there to buy time.
"Damn, I thought we had trust. Now you’re counting the money like an IRS agent?"
"You didn’t used to be like this. You’re getting soft."
It’s not try-hard. It’s just fun.
✅ Why It Works: People like people who make them feel good. If she likes you, she’ll want to talk to you.
- Authority – “People Listen to Who They Have to Adjust For”
If you walk in acting like you follow their rules, you’ve already lost.
What Happens Naturally:
You set boundaries without making a big deal about it.
She tries to hold your hand. You move away.
"Nah, you know I don’t do that."
Now she has to adjust to you.
Or, when you tip, you do it without hesitation, but without making a big deal.
✅ Why It Works: The moment you set the tone, she follows it.
- Scarcity – “People Want What They Can’t Have”
If something is too available, people don’t value it.
What Happens Naturally:
You don’t over-message. You don’t always react instantly.
"She could be farming easier customers, but she’s stuck on me. Why?"
At some point, her brain starts glitching.
"Wait, why do I care if he responds? Why do I wanna make him like me?"
✅ Why It Works: Your time isn’t just handed out. So when she gets it, she values it.
Final Verdict: You’re Doing This Naturally Anyway
This isn’t about some pickup artist nonsense. This is just human nature.
The only difference between a dude who walks out broke and a dude who walks out remembered—is knowing how this works.
So before you walk into a club again, ask yourself:
Are you playing the game? Or getting played?
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Bro, you could have finished our conversation... I genuinely want to get better at article writing. Anyways, leave your feedback below and you can keep me muted. I can't message you back after I asked why I sound like "AI" or a "Scammer"....
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See below for Exhibit A and B lol
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wordy B.S.
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No updates from y'all on how to improve. :(
Exhibit B, it never uploaded with my first picture weird. "Add Media (0/4)" seems to be wonky.
I accidentally posted another exhibit and it showed me email address 😂 but here is Exhibit B because I'm cross it doesn't make sense now.
See Exhibit B.... No adjudicators gave me any practical or actionable article advice to improve. Load of BS, right? @loper
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🧨 Part 1: How I Played Around With $100 Last Night and Emotional Discipline, FINALLY!!!!!!!
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Look.
You don’t need to blow $1,000 to make an impact.
You just need self-control, timing, and maybe some Helly work boots (also makes sure yours don't smell like your worksite's sewer) that says “I could stomp an asshole with the bouncers if they needed backup.”
I hit a new city for 2 business days so far...
4 double Jamesons deep last night...
$100 in fivers... (the blue one, for all you Americans on here lol)
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Step 1: Arrive Early. Not Eager.
I walked in around opening.
Scoped the room before the “Group Effect” kicked in (you know the one hahahaha, seriously, the Group Effect occurs when 6 average-looking dancers morph into one clusterfucking confusing 8/10 maybe-baddie).
Didn’t rush. Didn’t react.
Just watched on the sidelines as per usual.
With headphones in if the music is shit and a double J-Mo and tall glass of water in both hands.
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Step 2: Be Seen. Not Loud.
I tipped the bartender light to start and the front of house staff - nothing crazy like I used to lol god damn I hate posturing. Joked with the bartender and front of house staff. Clocked the staff and how their vibes felt.
Didn’t roll coins. Never, ever do. LOL, it's funny when I tell BC people in the strip club industry I'm in/from Alberta now technically so they're like "NO COINS, ABSOLUTELY NO COINS". Anyways, I nodded and moved on. Didn’t cause chaos.
Just made sure they knew:
“I’m not new here. I’m not stupid. I’m just sipping and waiting for the show.”
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Step 3: Tip With Power. Not Desperation.
$5 bills. Not $1s.
No thirsty energy. Just a soft toss like I’m feeding koi fish in Kyoto lmao.
Didn’t spray the stack like a frat bro-bot.
Didn’t try to buy affection, you can, sure but it ain't gonna sizzle if she ain't the one tbh.
Just enough to be seen, not owned (HELL NAW, as Young Dolph would say).
If I got bored?
I stopped.
Because my boredom kicking in is great useful data, not a malfunction or an off night and holy hell..... and thank brother of Christ I learned this FINALLY - to check in with my own state of mind.
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Step 4: Emotional Rejection With Dignity
One tatted goth baddie came through. Portland-style.
Face? A poem.
Vibe? A dream.
Tooth? Shiny. Possibly possessed..... probably a cheap molar ugh fuck... boner down.
My little buddy downstairs screamed at me and said nope.
So I dipped respectfully... and my most important thing is GIVING GRACE TO THE DANCER despite my double glance turning into potential double regrets.
“When I see the one, I’ll know.”
Said that in full view of the stripper booth-swarm.
Now they all wanna know who “the one” is.
Legend status: unlocked.
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Step 5: Exit Like a Myth
I had $20 left, wow.
Card declined on purpose (I literally blocked it earlier).
Sipped a final Jameson like it was a funeral for my old simp self lmao RIP to that old self from March 2023.
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TL;DR: This is the "BEGINNER, but come on now, lol it's for the cheap motherfuckers that are tryna be Anti-Simps (trademark this shit lmao, joking)" Way
Don’t go in loud. Go in tuned in.
Watch before acting. Tip with grace and give grace.
Leave if you ain't feeling anyone.
But it's so easy to go in with Part 2 now and fucking be a sniper!!!!!! LMAO
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