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At first blush, going to a strip club with the express purpose of finding an Outside-The-Club (hereafter referred to as &quot;OTC&quot;) playmate, appears to be identical to the phenomenon of Sugar Daddy dating. However, this is not the case. In fact in all but the rarest of cases, the OTC relationship is far superior for both parties.<br />
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A Sugar Daddy/Sugar Baby relationship is one in which an older, well-established male regularly financially assists a younger, attractive female who may or may not need the assistance. The Sugar Baby then recipricates by spending time with and usually, but not always, having sex with the Sugar Daddy.<br />
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Sugar Daddy dating is expensive. Many times these ladies receive thousands of dollars per month, and only go on 3-5 &quot;dates&quot; with the Sugar Daddy each month. Also, of these &quot;dates&quot;, only one, or in some cases none, end with sex. This is obviously a huge problem for the man!<br />
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At first, this appears to be great for the woman, but I would suggest otherwise. This sort of relationship breeds into the woman the entitlement attitude that they do not need to do anything but be pretty, and men will give them money. This attitude will then permeate into every aspect of her life, and after a short while she is incapable of having a sexual relationship with a man. After all, he should not require her to have sex with him! This is the &quot;I&#39;m a pricess&quot; attitude.<br />
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These women go on to have all kinds of plastic surgery, eating disorders, and the like, trying to stay young and pretty, so that men will continue to give them money for WHAT they are. The only problem is the money steadily declines, and by the time she is 32 years old, she is without a marketable skill, has an entitlement attitude, and looks somewhat freakish from the attempts to stay young.<br />
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On the other hand, An OTC relationship with a dancer is one in which a male pays a female that he met at a strip club simply to have sex with him. They may go on a &quot;date&quot;, and they may not, but sex is always the main component.<br />
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OTC relationships begin and end with sex. And instead of a monthly &quot;allowance&quot;, the money is paid on the spot. In the vast majority of cases, it is far less than the thousands of dollars for Sugar Daddy dating. This is obviously exactly what the man wants, but it is also better for the woman.<br />
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Instead of instilling an entitlement attitude, this has the benefit of enforcing the attitude that a woman (or anyone for that matter) has to actually DO something to EARN money, instead of simply BE something.<br />
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These women know exactly what men like, want, need, and desire in every way, because they have learned it through experience. And because they are actually DOING something, they are not as paranoid about getting a little older, because men still appriciate a woman with skills, even if she is no longer twenty years old. Although they still try to keep themselves looking as good as possible, it is not the end-all, be-all of their existance.<br />
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In summary, Sugar Daddy dating is a farce for both the man and the woman. Finding a good dancer with skills at the strip club for OTC is a far better option for both!<br />
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