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<p>Recently, there was a post about a stripper who was beat half to death. The article struck close to home.<br />
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Last year, when I was involved with OTC Gal, she thought it funny when she would disappear for one to three days at a time. There was even times when her family or friends would call looking for her. The biggest reason I'm glad that she is no longer in my life is&nbsp;the fear&nbsp;of having&nbsp;homicide detectives knocking on my door&nbsp;&nbsp;looking for her. Being that at the end she was scamming me, there is no doubt that I was among many that she either scammed, or tried to. She once told me that she had to fistfight a boyfriend. He either was pulling his punches, or he didn't know how to fight, as she was rather petite. In any case scammers usually don't last long with street thugs-her preferred company.</p>
<p>Those of us who have followed sports for a while have seen an athlete who stayed in the game too long. Sometimes, we've also seen strippers who stuck around too long. In any case, it's sad to see someone who stays in the game too long.</p>
<p>For decades, women used prostitution to get through college. When the bordellos were closed in the US in the 1960's, the women worked at strip joints to get through college. It's remained that way into the 21st century. Stripping should be a transition job, a point A to point B experience. This applies even to the single mothers who made stupid decisions. Within a few years, they should have enough money to get through a trade school or community college in order to get a &quot;real job&quot;.<br />
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Even porn, like stripping, is a gateway profession. The gate swings both&nbsp;ways-progress and ruin. Some porn stars have wisely&nbsp;invested and now live either comfortably, or without much worry. Some strippers find that sugardaddy or&nbsp;find that great career. Some porn stars, though, descend into drug addiction and, eventually suicide.&nbsp;Some strippers also become addicts and it's at&nbsp;that stage they are most pathetic.<br />
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Of course, it would be nice if clubs&nbsp;taught strippers important things, like being the perfect hostess, business person, and how to put together a game plan, but it's&nbsp;about the bucks and only the bucks.&nbsp;<br />
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Sad.&nbsp;</p>