Getting Attached

rufus1973

4/19/2010 12:12:41 AM

I guess we've all heard the old saying that it's easy to fall in love with the first pussy you meet. I'm not a strip club novice, though I never have made it a habit of visiting clubs. My company sent me to Southern California for 2 weeks. The end of my only weekend, I decided to check out this place labeled as a "sports bar" in Anaheim. I was a bit uneasy as I went alone and didn't know a sole around. I'm from the east coast so I'm very far out of my element. 
 
I went in and found the place almost totally empty. There was maybe one dancer, a hot waitress and a hot bartender who was from back east herself. Wanted to get a lap dance but wasn't too keen on the prospects. And when the place started to fill up, I got a bit self-concious. Then I saw Lana. 
 
I know, I know. She's a stripper and it's her job to make guys feel good. But something about the way she rubbed my shoulder made me feel especially good. Ironically, I slept awkwardly the night before and that same shoulder was sore. She smiled at me and I tried to play it cool when she asked if I wanted a dance. Truth be known, when I first saw her I told myself that I would choose someone else to get a dance from. 
 
But when she took me in the back, she was amazing! She was wearing a string bikini that flouresed in the neon lighting and had those high platform heels that look like there made of acrylic. She had straight blonde hair and amazing eyes. She had small tits but they were perfect. She was thin and so soft to the touch. She shaked her ass and slapped it and it turned me on so much. She nearly crawled over me and it was almost as if she wanted to show me her pussy. Then she leaned over and touched her head to mine and looked right into my eyes before she waved her hair across my face. It was soft, too. 
 
After about 2 dances, I watched her on stage. There she took off her top and I saw just how perfect her tits were. I saw her on stage twice and each time she looked over at me as I sat at the bar and smiled at me. She came over a few times and I bought her a bottle of water. Maybe a gimmick, but I thought it was a nice gesture on my part. When she finished her second dance it was about the time I decided to leave. I wanted a third dance and she had offered for when I was going to go. She was sitting on a couch near the stage trying to cool down after her performance. She let me sit next to her, with my arm around her as we watched another performer together. It was nice to get to talk to her. Even got to talk with the DJ a bit. Went back for the third and final lap dance and I said my good-byes. 
 
I may try to go back before I leave for the East Coast at the end of the week. But I will probably go only if she is there.

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rickdugan

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15 years ago

Reminds me of me about 14 years ago.  
 
Rufus, you are entering the tuition phase of the program.  Many of the guys here would jump on you for getting so wowed by such basic SS, but not me.  We have all been there at one point or another, usually when we were newbies at this.    
 
Some girls are masters at wowing customers, and newbies are particularly susceptible.  The girls that make the most tantalize not just your lust but also tug at your affections.  By looking at what you wrote you  (arm around her while you sat together, it was nice to talk to her, touching her head to yours, rubbing your shoulder), it looks like she got a good starter hook into you. 
 
My advice would be to keep your wits about you or your tuition could get VERY expensive.

Justanotherexvirgin

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15 years ago

Sometimes it's hard to "keep your wits about you."  The reason has nothing to do with the fact that the dancer is naked and sitting on your lap.  It has nothing to do with whether or not she's a "ten." 
 
Sometimes there's such a thing as "chemestry," and when the reaction starts it can be very powerful.  The problem is, this reaction occurs for reasons we often can't explain.  Sometimes there's a postive reaction from the dancer, too.  When that happens there's a potential for trouble, but also the potential for a marvelous friendship.  (I say "friendship" because "relationship" conveys something a lot more profound that's more difficult to sustain.) 
 
My work takes me across the country for months-long stays in towns large and small.  In each of those towns, or nearby, I can usually find a club that makes me feel comfortable without also feeling ripped-off.  Usually in that club there will be one dancer where the "chemestry" occurs.  Occasionally, the reaction occors both ways.  That's when I know my stay will be a more pleasant one. 
 
Now, I'm not a young stud.  I'm an old fat fart. I usually don't have a lot of money to spend, though I try to  be generous if a dancer makes me feel good (and NOT like a walking ATM!).  Still, for some reason, I get a lot of attention from dancers who have better looking, richer and certainly thinner prospects. 
 
It's nice dating a dancer and being able to enjoy her company at dinner or a show.  It's nice to go to a night club and dance, or sight-see, or anything else a couple can do together on a night on the town.  But, just like with any other woman you date, sex is not always part of the date, and that is something you MUST remember.  I have never met a dancer who did not appreciate being treated like a person, rather than a sexy slab of meat. 
 
Yes, if a guy isn't careful he can lose a lot of money and come away feeling like a victim.  But if you remember to be careful, and remember that the tricks a gal uses to seduce you aren't the bast reasons to get close to her, there's a good chance for something more from your "friendship" with a dancer,  After all, they're people too, and they often appreciate feeling like a "regular" person.

bigdude012

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15 years ago

The great dancers have realized that the easiest way to get a guy to open up his wallet is to make the guy feel special.  They have an unccanny ability to say whatever it is you want/need to hear on that particular night.

theriddler

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15 years ago

If you lived in the area and as stated kept your wits about you it looks like the start of an ATF relationship to me. Nothin wrong with that. Enjoy.

laplap1974

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15 years ago

Honestly,  the first time i went to a stripclub was very mild in that it was basic nude.  I was just watching at the back.   I gradually got into the scene after a few visits. But it was when I started goin the lapdance clubs that it became more interesting.   More contact means more ways to lose the money.  The funny thing that I've learned is if you are familar with a dancer for a while and they are with you and you don't sweat them.  They seem to like you more or "allow certain things" more so then a typical customer.     There was this one dancer who I believed use to perform at a dc club that always gave me attention.   Its called "the house"  anyway,  she was on the stage and I was seated in front of her.  She's full nude and fine.  The best part is that she was a brickhouse and very raunchy which really was a turn-on.   She would get on all 4's and literally stick her ass right in front of my face close enough to where I would smell her scent but just for a few seconds considering I really couldn't touch the dancers.  She would also get on her back and spread eagle opening her lips to see in side.   Sometimes when I tipped her she would gradually lower her ass onto my hand where my hand would totally desolve.   I would sometimes "pretend" to not move the money around and her hole would suck my pink up and she would smile.    I met up with her outside the club once and it was so worth it.  The best thing is that she is one of the nicest dancers I've ever come across.

Player11

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15 years ago

Tuition can get very expensive and they will up the ante the more emotionally involved your are.  Sort fo like a poker player with a strong hand going all in.   Thing is they have nothing but SS and are out to get your cold hard earned cash. 
  
I have been there as a RIL and a really good ROB was my prof.  They can be very manipulative and put you into a world where you easily give in to their requests spending lots of money on dances, takeing them shopping, giving them handouts but no pussy.  Take a serious look at what your spending vs seeing a good hooker.

alkaholik

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15 years ago

Not to burst your bubble brother... but take it all with a grain of salt. Take it for what it was - a great night with a hot gal. Enjoy the experience, and be glad you had it. But also keep in mind, it was a pipe dream. These girls are entertainers. They are the auditors of our fantasies. A guy can put himself into serious financial, emotional, or familial jeopardy trying to fulfill those fantasies. Keep it light, and keep it social.  
 
I should know - I am married to one of those girls (and no, I didn't meet her in the club. I knew her well before she started dancing.) 
 
There is an old saying - For every unbelievably hot girl out there, there is at least one guy who couldn't wait to get away from her sorry ass! 
 
There is an even older saying - the grass is always greener... So just be happy with what you got, and enjoy the benefits of the clubs!

ilbbaicnl

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15 years ago

When dealing with a stripper, car dealer, real estate agent etc.(anyone in commissioned sales), it's very unlikely that any feelings they may or may not have for you will prevent them from taking as much money from you as they can.  And they will lie through their teeth if that's what works to get your money.  It's just the way of the world. Ironically, it can in many cases ruining things to buy too many dances from just one dancer.  Sometimes, once they see you are attached, they will conclude they can get more and more money out of you, without them doing anything more for you.

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