Getting Attached
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I went in and found the place almost totally empty. There was maybe one dancer, a hot waitress and a hot bartender who was from back east herself. Wanted to get a lap dance but wasn't too keen on the prospects. And when the place started to fill up, I got a bit self-concious. Then I saw Lana.<br />
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I know, I know. She's a stripper and it's her job to make guys feel good. But something about the way she rubbed my shoulder made me feel especially good. Ironically, I slept awkwardly the night before and that same shoulder was sore. She smiled at me and I tried to play it cool when she asked if I wanted a dance. Truth be known, when I first saw her I told myself that I would choose someone else to get a dance from. <br />
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But when she took me in the back, she was amazing! She was wearing a string bikini that flouresed in the neon lighting and had those high platform heels that look like there made of acrylic. She had straight blonde hair and amazing eyes. She had small tits but they were perfect. She was thin and so soft to the touch. She shaked her ass and slapped it and it turned me on so much. She nearly crawled over me and it was almost as if she wanted to show me her pussy. Then she leaned over and touched her head to mine and looked right into my eyes before she waved her hair across my face. It was soft, too.<br />
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After about 2 dances, I watched her on stage. There she took off her top and I saw just how perfect her tits were. I saw her on stage twice and each time she looked over at me as I sat at the bar and smiled at me. She came over a few times and I bought her a bottle of water. Maybe a gimmick, but I thought it was a nice gesture on my part. When she finished her second dance it was about the time I decided to leave. I wanted a third dance and she had offered for when I was going to go. She was sitting on a couch near the stage trying to cool down after her performance. She let me sit next to her, with my arm around her as we watched another performer together. It was nice to get to talk to her. Even got to talk with the DJ a bit. Went back for the third and final lap dance and I said my good-byes.<br />
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I may try to go back before I leave for the East Coast at the end of the week. But I will probably go only if she is there.
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Rufus, you are entering the <u><b>tuition phase</b></u> of the program. Many of the guys here would jump on you for getting so wowed by such basic SS, but not me. We have all been there at one point or another, usually when we were newbies at this. <br />
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Some girls are masters at wowing customers, and newbies are particularly susceptible. The girls that make the most tantalize not just your lust but also tug at your affections. By looking at what you wrote you (arm around her while you sat together, it was nice to talk to her, touching her head to yours, rubbing your shoulder), it looks like she got a good starter hook into you.<br />
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My advice would be to keep your wits about you or your tuition could get VERY expensive.
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Sometimes there's such a thing as "chemestry," and when the reaction starts it can be very powerful. The problem is, this reaction occurs for reasons we often can't explain. Sometimes there's a postive reaction from the dancer, too. When that happens there's a potential for trouble, but also the potential for a marvelous friendship. (I say "friendship" because "relationship" conveys something a lot more profound that's more difficult to sustain.)<br />
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My work takes me across the country for months-long stays in towns large and small. In each of those towns, or nearby, I can usually find a club that makes me feel comfortable without also feeling ripped-off. Usually in that club there will be one dancer where the "chemestry" occurs. Occasionally, the reaction occors both ways. That's when I know my stay will be a more pleasant one.<br />
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Now, I'm not a young stud. I'm an old fat fart. I usually don't have a lot of money to spend, though I try to be generous if a dancer makes me feel good (and NOT like a walking ATM!). Still, for some reason, I get a lot of attention from dancers who have better looking, richer and certainly thinner prospects.<br />
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It's nice dating a dancer and being able to enjoy her company at dinner or a show. It's nice to go to a night club and dance, or sight-see, or anything else a couple can do together on a night on the town. But, just like with any other woman you date, sex is not always part of the date, and that is something you MUST remember. I have never met a dancer who did not appreciate being treated like a person, rather than a sexy slab of meat.<br />
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Yes, if a guy isn't careful he can lose a lot of money and come away feeling like a victim. But if you remember to be careful, and remember that the tricks a gal uses to seduce you aren't the bast reasons to get close to her, there's a good chance for something more from your "friendship" with a dancer, After all, they're people too, and they often appreciate feeling like a "regular" person.
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I have been there as a RIL and a really good ROB was my prof. They can be very manipulative and put you into a world where you easily give in to their requests spending lots of money on dances, takeing them shopping, giving them handouts but no pussy. Take a serious look at what your spending vs seeing a good hooker.<br />
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I should know - I am married to one of those girls (and no, I didn't meet her in the club. I knew her well before she started dancing.)<br />
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There is an old saying - For every unbelievably hot girl out there, there is at least one guy who couldn't wait to get away from her sorry ass! <br />
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There is an even older saying - the grass is always greener... So just be happy with what you got, and enjoy the benefits of the clubs! <br type="_moz" />