Comments by Kristopher19

@bucknutter I don’t want to discourage anyone from checking out Europe. I hear there are better clubs in Frankfurt and Munich. Spain also is apparently great for gorgeous women and cheap prices. Even without mothering Europe is just an amazing place to check out. I’m going to try out some independent girls today.

What other details do you guys need? I really don’t have much else to offer. This is a tiny nothing club

For the missing club details, this is all I got to see. Big main hall, bar serving non alcoholic drinks, and buckets of ice on the right hand side. Stage in the far end. Rows of seats facing the stage. Left side had the entrance to the VIP sextion. I believe there were more girls just chilling there. If you face the stages there’s a staircase behind you, to the left leading to what I assume is the more expensive vip section. As per nudity. Yeah it was top only off on the stage.

@papi_chulo it was around 830-9 pm on a Saturday. That makes sense. I was just surprised at the lack of any visible dancers. Also 20 men staring at a single girl dancing just seemed creepy. Reminded me of those old school porn theaters that men would go to jerk off in.

I've been there several times since in the past year. Did not visit pre-covid. Rarely hear of any one being robbed or exploited. Even those that do have a bad time tend to act stupid, get drunk and pick fights. Stick to the safer well known areas, use Uber instead of the local taxis, and you'll be good.

Based on my first visit I had 2 months ago. I highly, HIGHLY recommend you stay at Cascadas. Couple of reasons. You can get some high quality girls conveniently from Hk and bring them over to your room immediately. HK has the best girls in my opinion. They won’t care what drinks you bring with you into the room. They’re just checking for weapons. Enjoy your stay. I’m returning to TJ next weekend. All the girls I was with (except 1) spent more than an hour with me. Didn’t charge me extra. If you end up vibing with them, and enjoy their company, you won’t get hassled by meseros after your 30 mins or hour is up. The only time they do that is to check up on the girl. My last day there, I paid for those temp rooms. They were knocking on my door. Good 15 mins before my hour was up. It was fkin annoying.

@papi_chulo I def learned that this time around. I failed to mention I was approached by another girl. She gyrated mid air and when I accidentally grazed her boobs, she pushed my hand away and said I can’t do that. I stopped her after the single dance.

@Enslow sorry for the confusion. Both the prices $300 and $400 were for the private cabanas. You also have to pay $70 for 30 mins to the club or $120 for an hour. Then I paid extra for the women. @Takedacannoli I had a very good first experience at Divas. I tried going there again before XTC but got my feelings hurt. Lol. Talked to 3 hotties while they were dancing and asked them to come to me. While I waited mexican dudes approached them and they went to them instead. Unfortunately I’m a brown dude, I grew up in the states, am not bad looking or stingy and treat the girls well. All my exes (bar a white and black girl) were hispanic Americans, I should’ve picked up some Spanish from them. AFAIK and from reading some posts here, Indians get a bad rep, mostly ones that come fresh off the boat. Im trying to learn Spanish to up my game and then I’ll revisit those clubs, cos boy I love me some Spanish girls.

I disagree. And this is also based on my experience with therapy, If you have a decent therapist, he/she can help you figure out why or why not you may have a sex addiction. A lot of times it’s insecurity, childhood trauma, bad relationship trauma, etc. I’m not against this hobby, but if it’s contributing to the mental decline of OP, he needs to figure that out first. Maybe once you do that, you can go back to this hobby or not, knowing fully well what you want that will make you happy. Plenty of adults benefit from therapy.

My concern was them using my information for any nefarious purposes. I’m not married or anything, but I’d rather keep my hobbies private. Idk maybe I’m being paranoid and nothing like that would happen at Cascadas.

Let me give you some advice. None of us here are qualified to give you professional help. Lots of good advice here based on experiences, but you should talk to a therapist. Just figure out how to balance out receiving those chemicals in your brain that makes you happy. Abusing how much you receive sex from strangers will mess with you and leave you feeling shitty. Maybe work on other aspects of your life as well that’ll make you happy.

Thank you guys! All fantastic suggestions. I’m super excited to check out this paradise on earth. On another note anyone know what’s up with this desertscrub guy? He posted a (now deleted) reply trying to scare me into believing I’ll get murdered if I visit Tijuana. I’ve been seeing him pop up in other discussions with equally negative trolling comments. It’s just weird someone would spend money to get verified to just be a spiteful troll here.

Thanks for all the great tips and suggestions guys! Much appreciated! Am hoping my first time there will be problem free.